“How to stop our kids from being bullied or committing suicide” Hello you can’t, there no right way to stop someone from taking their life, and adults won’t ever understand because yes they were ounce kids but it’s different now. There’s a bunch of social media and the teachers have no boundaries. All you can do is ask you child what they need from you because you won’t know something unless you ask. We don’t want to hear that someone has it worse because that makes us feel worse for being human. Our emotions are all over the place and none of respect each other. We use each other, bully each other and that makes the Aliens of our generation feel absolutely alone. Like we want to die. Yes we are going to be depressed but we’ll get through (hopefully). What we need is our home to be our safe haven. Where we cannot talk and just listen to music all day. And don’t tell us that our music is depressing because that is just making us feel even worse we need our moms to tell us that they don’t know what we’re going through but it’ll get better. And our dad to show us how were supposed to be treated. I wish I could give a remedy for suicidal thoughts but I can’t. Just know that there’s someone who loves you, they probably don’t know it yet. Life is hard epically for teenagers. Everyone is telling us that how we feel isn’t right so of course we’ll be depressed. That’s okay and there’s no such thing as normal. If you think that someone is perfect promise you they wake everyday wondering why they aren’t dead. They probably put a pound of makeup on their face and practice how to hide their feeling around people. Then spend their entire day biting their tongue and fight the tsunami of tear behind their eyes and hiding all their scars from all the wars they’ve fought. Love everyone because you never know who needs it. Be perfectly imperfect forever because that’s what makes people beautiful. Being sad is okay not wanting to live for a second or two isn’t okay too. Suicide stops you from becoming who you are meant to be. Stay alive inside and out, trust when I say I know how hard it is. It’s not easy it never will be but as soon as you accept that and get to the rainbow it’ll be better.
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adults still get bullied and suicide, and use and feel isolated. they do understand, just on a different level. so they approach it on their level and try to understand on yours, a gap not easily breached.
life is hard for everyone, ‘especially’ feels applicable because it’s you but it remains difficult in different ways as you go from stage to stage.
which means the rainbow is more a good resource of coping skills with a network and knowing how to deal with things without feeling self destruction is the only course.. sometimes involving a different environment. and that the rainbow is a process.
it’s good that you’re hopeful.