my mum has just made the thing that is the most powerfull triggor for suicide
she did that so that she can be comfrotable
she did that because she wont let me marry sb if i am not virgin so that she can be fine and nobody would say anything about her
what a good mum ……….
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Was she just asking or did she literally examine you?
what the heck
I’m trying to understand.
So you’re wearing a chastity belt and she made sure no one picked the lock?
i am virgin
i brought a guy to our house to watch a movie
she saw him
and this is what is happening right now
she is a doctor
she examined me yes
Sorry this examination happened to you. It seems like a huge violation of your privacy. I am not a lawyer but I am near certain you do not have to consent to this. You may want to give this a google, if you have not already.
As to marriage, in nearly all 50 US states ( not sure where you live) the legal age for marriage is 18. People 18 and over are legally protected from interference with marrying. For people under 18 parental consent is required, but if denied, a court can step in to authorize the marriage provided the court deems those involved capable of the responsibilities.
What I am trying to say is, where I am writing from (US) and probably wherever you live there may have been a violation of law on her part.
What country/ state do you live in?
jordan in the middle east where our culture says that its all about the hymen in marriage
I know that Child Sexual Abuse is a serious legal matter in Jordan but I don’t know how or if your mothers behavior relates to the laws in Jordan. I hope someone who is qualified to comment will weigh in. How do you feel about what she did?
Fun Facts…
1) The Hymen doesn’t ‘break’, but rather deforms/stretches.
2) It is not uncommon for girls to be born: without a hymen, with a partial hymen, or with an intact hymen.
3) External Factors such as: Frequent activities that place pressure on your pubic region (frequent sitting/standing on hard surfaces, bicycle/horseback riding/etc.), Accidents and/or injury (Automotive, Sporting, etc.), and/or Nonsexualized Abuse can cause even a healthy hymen to deform/stretch.
4) Internal Factors such as: Feminine Hygiene Products, Aggressive and/or Overly Frequent Cleansing practices, Self-Gratification, and Health examinations can cause a hymen to deform/stretch.
5) Other Factors such as… regular body development can cause a hymen to deform/stretch.
So… exam or not. You do not have to say anything more than you’re comfortable saying. Also… It’s your body, and it’s no secret that the laws protecting minors in Jordan regularly go unregulated; however, there are laws nonetheless.
Do what you feel is best for you! Just remember to be intelligent about doing so… whatever choice it is you make. Most importantly be safe!
Remain Blessed, -Kev.
“This too shall pass”.
That’s an expression that works for any situation. Everything is fleeting, impermanent, temporary.
Eventually you’ll get out of there and you’ll spread your wings and fly, but for now you’re stuck.
Just remember it’s only temporary (even it feels eternal).
Sorry you went through this. It is difficult.
So, too, it must be difficult being caught between different cultural values.
When we’re young, we can’t often change the circumstances we are in until we are no longer dependent upon our families. But when we are emancipated, we can have a stronger voice. Something tells me that you will have a strong voice and be a source of encouragement for young women facing the same realities as you.
Hugs to you.