I ve noticed that girls developed a special ability through evolution to sniff out male losers very effectively (probably coz male loser is one of the most dangerous things for a woman like rapists etc.) I guess they do it unconsiously through pheromones and insecure body language. Guys can recognize losers too but it takes much more time and getting to know that person. With girls it just takes one look in the eyes and she knows Im a loser, she knows Im a virgin, she knows I hate myself, she knows my life is boring and I have nothing to offer.
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are you afraid you won’t be able to find a girlfriend? don’t say you are a loser. you are not. maybe you are shy. some girls like it. and the right girl will accept you for who you are. it is not important if you hate yourself. she will love you and with her by your side you will start loving yourself too. and it is not important that you are a virgin. don’t worry about that. it is not a big deal. 🙂
it actually goes both ways. women definitely do not like men that don’t like themselves, and they also don’t like men that know their worth. there’s no balance in our world anymore. we either hate ourselves or love ourselves. everything is too much. there’s seldom humility. it’s sad. the only way to expel the darkness in which we have found ourselves is with light. we can’t do it on our own. and most of us are too distracted, too proud to even admit that! i won’t bother to preach further, as i know this website is ultimately a pity party
Some might call that “confirmation bias” something I went through also. You feel like a loser and then people give you “signals” that you interpret to confirm the same notions you have about yourself. But that isn’t always the case and you could also be misreading their body language.
Yes it is true most women are wired to choose a mate that can provide for their offspring and protect them. So if they encounter a male who seems weak, insecure and lacks resources they’d probably go onto the next guy. If you were in their situation wouldn’t you do the same? It’s the harsh realities of life.
When I felt like a loser I decided to remake myself. I was a skinny kid so I went to the gym and got very well built. I took on a very challenging university degree that few people would qualify to get into and even less graduate from and I succeeded. I improved my interpersonal skills, learned how to be ‘cool’ and easy going. Knowing when to let this slide but also when not to let things slide and make an issue out of them. Basically trying to become the best version of myself.
Anyways it worked it did make me much more appealing to girls, the gym alone would’ve been enough but getting a good education makes them even more impressed.
There is someone for everyone and you could find a girl in your level but I’ll bet you’re disappointed at not getting the girl you really wanted and she has her own standards too.
If you do bring a lot to the table already then it goes back to my statement at the beginning. Life isn’t fair but there is a lot you can do to make it fairer towards you if you get my point.
As for being a virgin, that’s no big deal-lie, fake it till you make it. If you want to catch a big fish, it’s not going to fall in your lap you have to work for it.
*let things slide
lol muscles. so superficial. the only thing that really matters in this life is knowledge and how you apply it. everything else is a distraction. we aren’t to go out looking for love. it is to come to us. what’s meant for us will be, and what isn’t, won’t. the love in which we harbor within us needs to be applied too, and not to be wasted, invested in another person that’s only going to reject it, resulting in us being hurt and… you know the rest.
lol and muscles? lol oh my goodness, that is hilarious. like being physically fit is going to bring true love. women are incredibly intuitive. they can easily see through that facade. they prefer a man who’s not afraid to admit that he has insecurities, like any other real human being. this world kills me with trying to pretend to be confident, when that’s not real confidence. real confidence is incredibly rare, and people fear it.
It seems you just stopped at my point about going to the gym, I also mentioned a good education and social skills are needed as well.
It is more than superficial, a good body is a sign of positive health, discipline, control, and strength. And like it or not, most humans are superficial, they want to date/marry sexy fit people. But others don’t care and settle for whatever they can get.
Confidence comes from feeling secure within yourself but it is a reflection of your state in life. Sure some people could be broke, unattractive and still be confident but generally, it comes from being successful in life, having accomplished things.
Like it or not we’re all in a meat market, people choose each other based on certain criteria. If you want a 10/10 girl you need to bring a lot to the table. If you have no standards at all, then you can find someone in that category also. Whatever makes you happy.
…you clearly operate on an incredibly low frequency. You’ve got no other choice but to be focused on the obvious. The elevation of your consciousness has been subdued, by design, and ultimately, you can blame yourself for this. Silly goose.
You are unable to refute any of my claims so you resort to insults and ad hominems. Pretty pathetic for someone who purports to be at a “high frequency” whatever that means.
So does having an ‘elevated consciousness’ imply that you’re unhealthy, out of shape and have no standards? That’s what you seem to be arguing in which case, no thanks, I prefer being fit, driven, educated and selective when it comes to choosing my mates.
You’re probably limited by design to your station in life and content with it. If you’re happy being where you are then why be upset about people who want more out of life?
Sight?
oh, and if you want a tip: STOP MASTURBATING. that is more than likely the most self-destructive vice/habit that you will ever partake. you are literally letting the life out of you. pretend the body is a balloon filled with nutrients; every time you masturbate, you’re ridding of all those necessary nutrients that are vital for your wellbeing. if you stop masturbating, i guarantee that you will feel better. it’s just difficult getting over the withdrawal, but you will feel better once you conquer.
pray, seek YAHUAH, and consider fasting as well. you may be in a dark place, but you don’t have to stay there. you can be delivered.
LOL, thanks for sharing the best ideas from 2,000 ago that you found in a book of myths and fairy tales.
Masturbation is perfectly healthy and normal, 99% of the population does it. Go read modern medical texts on this subject, rather than a collection of old wives tales from the Bronze Age, Luddite. 🙂
lol keep sleeping, buddy. masturbation is highly unhealthy, i bet you believe you believe the lies that NASA feeds you, don’t you? truth is put right in front you, and you still don’t see it. ha. try putting down the phone and look up for a change.
mindless drone.
lol and a “book of myth and fairy tales” Class A Atheist comment right there. I bet you’ve never once studied this presumed “Book Of Myths”. I suggest you do some research, buddy. The real truth will have you trembling and frozen all at once. 🙂
Hahaha, I get the sneaking suspicion you are a Flat-Earther and a conspiracy theorist who thinks the moon landing was a hoax. lol
Ya thanks I don’t get my “truth” from anonymous trolls who distrust Science and scientific organizations such as NASA, but you are entertaining and I mean that sincerely.
I was born into a Christian family but left religion in my teens when I wised up and read the story of a magic invisible ghost who created a dirt-man and his rib-wife/sister and they had 2 boys, one died but humanity came from the other…wtf?
And that a man lived inside a whale, or a God impregnated his mother so he could be born to her and die to be a sacrifice to himself to forgive man for the sins he knew they’d commit because he made man sinful.
If you believe this horsecrap, you’re a gullible fool and I wouldn’t want to have anything to do with a loon like you. No wonder you abhor science, your head is full of you know what. 🙂
actually, you’re just a demon. this entire website is infested with you demons. it’s a trap, to lure in REAL human beings, to get them to commit suicide so they can go to hell with the rest of you. HA. NOT GONNA WORK ON ME SATAN. YOUR DAYS ARE NUMBERED. I REBUKE YOU DARK SPIRITS, SHARPLY. BE REBUKED!
The only demon here is you, fascist psycho. Making death threats and spewing hate is a violation of the site rules, you deserve to be banned.
Virgin? So what. My ex lost his virginity at 31.