I wish everyone would love me…

Ok so you might find this something other than criticism, but it’s just criticism, don’t overdramatize it to something that it’s not.

I read most of your posts, some of your anime posts are fairly interesting, clearly you have those interests and so on, but the one about your mom was just cringe-worthy. Hopefully you take a deep breath, chill, and realize it yourself. You hate your mom because she told you reality is not the way you want it and you can’t accept that, despite the fact she hasn’t created this “reality”. Which makes it feel like you’re manipulative and can’t accept facts. What kind of girl would want that? She’d be afraid to even have opinions that you disagree with, even if she’s right and you’re wrong.

Anyway, the point is that you’re way too obsessed over getting a girlfriend, to the point that you don’t care about anything else. Clearly you have some interesting interests, so focus on them. When people said to let a girlfriend “come to you” they mean that you should focus on stuff that you like, interests, hobbies, and so on. Then, you might find a girlfriend interested in that part of you or whatever else defines yourself. In other words, get some activity that can define you.

I mean what do you expect to show off to a girlfriend seriously? Any guy will claim that he’s a good boyfriend, that he’ll love her unconditionally, and so on. Nothing would make you special for any girl in this regard. So basically, get a life, do something with it, and think of getting a girlfriend as a side effect rather than a goal. And stop blaming your mom. She’s being a very good mother trying to tell you how life is in reality, you’re not a child anymore, so take it properly like a grown up man.

You said you want to have a girlfriend with shared interests. Ok, so do those interests and find her that way. Being desperate like this is clearly not your interest: you’re not going to find any girl wanting you this way. Unless you think she’ll take pity on you or something. Incels are NOT right, girls and women are not objects that they deserve to have. Stop this mentality or calling yourself incel or thinking you are one.

I know you’ll take this the wrong way and I’m probably not going to bother you anymore, so just take a deep breath and read this with a clear mind instead of the desperation you put out. Since you like anime, you’re really acting like a yandere in a way, thinking that girls “belong to you”, I’m sure you’ll relate to this. They don’t, they’re human beings, just like you. There may be plenty of fish in the sea, but they want a fish special to them, so make yourself special, find a hobby or goal or whatever.