So here i am, idk where to start, but let me..
I am the first daughter of the family, i live in asia, and my mom really gives all the burdens to me. She really wants me to live her dream. I unconsciously live that way bcs i’ve been told the value of being obedient.
I have to meet their expectations, if i am not, maybe it was not a direct judge towards me but they’ll keep telling me abt how much i became a burden for them.
I can’t live it anymore, i have my own dream, my own life.
Now i am suffering from depression, idk what to do, i lost my motivation, and willingness to achieve my dreams
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I know that it must be hard, but i believe they honestly feel that they’re doing whats best. Are they making you go to school for something that you dont like? Whats your dream?
Same question for you. What is your dream? Sounds like you are struggling to meet their expectations as it stresses you out. I think anyone in today’s world is stressed out. So much to do, so much little time.
Being a burden is the worst…. do you love your parents? Maybe they are the burden on you