I have such bad tendencies to get attached fast. Not even truly attached but it’s like a role I take on. Im currently talking to someone and im finding myself asking what is this, what am I doing ?, how serious is this? and I get pretty jealous and insecure over it but as I sit back and ask myself what I want I don’t even know if I want something that serious. I just got out of a long relationship few months ago and im probably not ready for something just yet but here I am being jealous and clingy and wanting this persons attention and affection.
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Perfectly understandable. You just really want someone to be the right one, so you go on more than you expect or maybe youd want to. Im kind of the same way if i was right about that. I have trouble trusting people, and leaning on them before getting hurt or let down. Dont have any advice for you really, i still ponder that. All i can say is personally i just distance myself from those who im not extremely close to. And even then i have trouble with trust issues.
Why not just talk about it with them? Set up boundaries, make things clear. Why not let it be platonic?
I don’t know my own boundaries. im kind of a go with the flow type of person. I like to see how things go naturally but im just. really dependent on the attention from this person
You sound funny. Maybe it’s all in the mind here. Stay calm and have other interests so that’s not your only thought of frantically being like “is this real? Is this fake? Is this make believe? Is he the one? Does he even remember we talked? Does he know my name?” Those last two are pretty important you could be an unknown to him while you’re making him a suddenly important priority. Always expect that you’re an unknown, because.. well, that’s just how it is.
aw thanks you’re honestly right I clearly need to focus my energy into something else because as you said anything can happen at anytime and depending on people in general tends not toward out too well