My dad who sexually assaulted my 6yrold son has taken everything from me n my kids. Hes made us homeless. He sold or trashed all of our belongings that were still in the house. He sold my jeep. His actions destroyed my son and he questions his self worth and thinks hes ugly n says he wants ti commit suicide. So hes in therapy. I heard through the grapevine that my father will not serve prison time for 1st deg sexual assault n incest, and that he will prob only get probation which is not the justice my 6yrold son needs. Also found out this morning that i cant make or accept phone calls and he cut me off of the only thing i had left. So now i gotta find a way to get a govt phone. Not having a car or legit address isnt helping me. My credit score is kinda bad and the fact that im jobless makes me not an ideal candidate to rent apartment. Plus rents keep raising higher n if u meed a 650credit score and 3x the rent, i def wont have that. Not to mention since i have to buy a car and rebuy all belongings again like clothes, furniture etc. Its not like id have $ fallin from my butt. My dads crime has cost me so much money, has made me lost my dignity n pride, has broken my family apart and has made me struggle to the point where being alive is painful. I just dont understand why we cant get a break. Why am i being punished for somethin i didnt do!!!???
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Human services knows everything we are going through but they still havent helped us. Idk if its covid or want but no1 wants to help any1 these days. Apparently kids suffering isnt enough for any1 to take action and the criminals always win.
It’ll be alright. You’ll have a home of your own. Your father will never see your son again. Your kids will grow into great people.
That is ridiculous. When it rains it pours and floods. Sounds like he was able to get a lawyer that took real good care of him. What a miserable inhuman thing.
Hey, I can’t solve everything but I think it may be possible for you to get back on your feet again. I left a comment on my post from the 28th that you commented on.
Are you based in the USA? Is there some kind of legal aid or citizen advice for people in your situation?
Call the police. Your dad can’t sell your vehicle.
Blackmail him with the sexual abuse stuff or maybe just tell the cop’s about that while you’re at it with the jeep stuff.
I couldn’t ever imagine doing anything like that to my daughter. He must be crazy.
Her father is obviously getting off the hook because he has mental health issues or something, the police were already involved judging by what she wrote
I should probably have read that more carefully
He has a really good lawyer but with what my dad did to my son and also to me and my other kids. He deserves to know what its like to get everything taken away from him. My 6yrold talks about suicide and thinks hes ugly and hes in therapy, and my “father” could care less about how much damage he did to my son.
He has lost the right to be called a father.
Thats right he has. I try not to give him that title considering he took everything away from me n my kids. But i notice sometimes i say his name when talkin about him to others, n sometimes i just say my dad. People get confused if i say his name it just saves me time explaining who im talkin about.
Court hearing #3 on march 12th. Def not somethin i look forward to.