Read the title again. Do have those eyes? Do you see the lies? You might think you do, but many of you (myself included) do not see the most obvious of lies, the ones from the people you love the most. When you love someone oh so dearly, you don’t want to see the bad out of them whether it be a boyfriend, mother, father, husband, wife, best friend etc. But let me tell you when you finally see those lies. It will hit you. I’m not saying everyone around you is bad. But those people you call friends, are they really your friends? When they ask you what’s wrong. Do they actually care? I can tell you out of personal experience how heart wrenching it is when someone you use to hold so close to your heart can look you in the eye ask you what’s wrong and for it to not mean a thing, another gossip to tell everyone, another story to tell the world. Now I’m going to ask you again, do you have those eyes? Or are they full of lies? It is so hard to find a good friend, boyfriend whatever now a days. So many fakes and wannabes. You have to live our life how you want to live it, with the people who care and love you the most, who will hold you when your sad, listen to you when your mad and help you when you’ve fallen. Someone who means what they say. Rid your eyes of all those lies.
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Questioning one’s loyalty to you will only create tension and damage the trust between you. Instead of assuming and suspecting a person, be mindful and use common sense. If a person is blatantly mistrustful, suspicious and dubious take that into consideration when maintaining a relationship with them. If you have no reason to believe that a person is going to exploit and abuse you, then I don’t see the point in questioning them. Follow your instincts, but don’t be cynical and believe that everyone you know is out to get you, if you do then you may end up losing the genuine people in your life.
Unfortunately you did not understand the concept of this paragraph. Which clearly includes that I’m not saying everyone around you is bad”. I wrote it so people open their eyes just a little bit more to see who is loyal in there life who is there because they care. I’m not trying to interpret to people to suspicious about everyone around them but to see those obvious signs. I hope this can help you better understand, what I was writing. Not to investigate all your relationships but to be aware to the obvious things that you can sometimes chose to ignore when you have know that person for a while.
I said “if a person…” keywords being if a person not people. It specified I was talking about one person, not everyone, as what you’ve stated in your post. I did include a plural at the end which I admit, contradicted your point and I’m sorry for being careless with responding. The concept I was trying to convey in my comment was directed towards a single person as I stated in the beginning. I understand what you were saying from the beginning, it’s my fault I failed to consider your statement that you shouldn’t be suspicious of everyone when writing the comment.