I was in a relationship and in love and I was happy. It took away my bad thoughts and depression. I put everything I had into it and my future. Now, I have nothing and i’m worse than ever.
I have two moods that i alternate between; really really happy or really really sad.
When i’m really really happy, life is amazing and I really want a boyfriend just so I have someone always there who genuinely cares.
When i’m really really sad, I remember how fucked up I am and that no one could ever love me.
I have a boyfriend; I love him with all my heart. But I still want to kill myself. Not to say that it won’t help you. But don’t try getting into a relationship just because you’re trying to avoid hurting yourself. That’s just setting yourself up for failure.
I’m just trying to determine if seeking a soulmate is worth the trouble, or I should just give up, I kinda already have but I get so damn F’n lonesome that I rather just die.
Well, chew on this: You cannot help others unless you are able to help yourself. The point of being with someone is to make yourself and the person who are with into better people.
Yeah that makes sense, I’m working on being ok with myself alone and stuff, I dont hate myself, I guess I should just work on self improvements and then…see what happens.
Funny, I was sitting here feeling sorry for myself because I have no one in my life. Then some of you have special people in your life and want to die anyway. Maybe it’s not so funny.
if u already have someone, break up with em and kill urself. cause the purpose to keep on living when ur with someone is because of them. thats the reason to keep on goin, to be with the ones who love u, or u love.
bu sometimes u can feel so like shit that u only think about urself in the moment and wanna die. its though
I am “alone”, meaning not in a romantic relationship. Do I wish to have a relationship? NO!
The common reason why people do not recommend them is because they have had their share of bad relationships. . . That’s not my reason. Yes, I have had negative/unhealthy relationships, however, I have held this belief WAY LONG before my negative experiences.
I find relationships to be almost pointless unless you view the significant other in an objectional way, which in that case I STRONGLY do not recommend relationships.
Relationships are for people to satisfy each other’s needs. These needs usually consist of: feeling needed/appreciated, someone to talk to, sex, etc. Now if both parties can satisfy each other’s needs, this would be great, however, this is uncommon (if even existent). Seems that someone is always on the receiving side, while the other person is being drained. Plus, these needs can be met without any other parties being involved in a relationship. (with sex you can just masturbate).
Dang, I have so much more to say. I just don’t know what you SHOULD be in a relationship, you know?
So I guess I’ll just scroll up now to see if anyone says you should be in a relationship, and prove why they are wrong.
Oh, and to sum it up. Relationships are nothing but two people using each other, and they always end bad. (And when they don’t end, both parties are usually miserable)
Let me get this straight. A bad reason for not getting in a relationship is because of the inevitability of emotional (and possibly physical) damage?
Hm, and that’s setting yourself up for failure? So, the implication here is that success is being miserable while pretending that you are doing what’s best. 🙂
I find it great to kiss someone passionately. You can’t manage to do that alone, and kissing a stranger doesn’t really involve any passion (like clubbing
and kissing a random cutie. At least I can recall some gorgeous ones
i’ve kissed but that I couldn’t care less for in the end).
The only way to achieve it is either by being in a relationship with
someone you greatly care for or admire, and nevertheless someone
whom you have a crush
for a while (which implies being in a “i want you” state of mind…)
It’s just so awesome to go on a date and kiss someone you’ve been
wanting to.
I’d love to be on a relationship in which we could enjoy each other’s
company and have great fun (me and my partner). That would be great.
I’m not a huge fan of being alone, but I guess I’m too insecure and
, perfectionist and unstable to make a relationship work.
The guy really needs to put great effort in order to keep me around.
I need “a knight in shining armor” – When he finds me I’ll get
my “happy ever after” lol ;p
I have wanted to be in a relationship, but lately I find myself caring less and less. I feel that my romantic desperation is fading away to cynicism and hopelessness. However, after I was first hospitalized and put on antidepressants in high school, there was one girl who always made me feel happy whenever we talked. If you really feel lonely, then finding a soulmate may just give you the motivation to live. If it doesn’t work out, well, would you feel any worse than you do now?
I have a boyfriend. He’s the only one that make feel wanted in this world.
But even then, I would have to say no. Because I don’t really feel anything anymore, and i feel incredibly bad whenever I let him down. But I guess it all depends on what’s wrong with you. We all have different problems, so I can’t say it’d be different for you.
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I was in a relationship and in love and I was happy. It took away my bad thoughts and depression. I put everything I had into it and my future. Now, I have nothing and i’m worse than ever.
I have two moods that i alternate between; really really happy or really really sad.
When i’m really really happy, life is amazing and I really want a boyfriend just so I have someone always there who genuinely cares.
When i’m really really sad, I remember how fucked up I am and that no one could ever love me.
I have a boyfriend; I love him with all my heart. But I still want to kill myself. Not to say that it won’t help you. But don’t try getting into a relationship just because you’re trying to avoid hurting yourself. That’s just setting yourself up for failure.
I’m just trying to determine if seeking a soulmate is worth the trouble, or I should just give up, I kinda already have but I get so damn F’n lonesome that I rather just die.
Well, chew on this: You cannot help others unless you are able to help yourself. The point of being with someone is to make yourself and the person who are with into better people.
Yeah that makes sense, I’m working on being ok with myself alone and stuff, I dont hate myself, I guess I should just work on self improvements and then…see what happens.
why alone? try to hang out with friends and with people around you who make you laugh. do you have children?
Funny, I was sitting here feeling sorry for myself because I have no one in my life. Then some of you have special people in your life and want to die anyway. Maybe it’s not so funny.
if u already have someone, break up with em and kill urself. cause the purpose to keep on living when ur with someone is because of them. thats the reason to keep on goin, to be with the ones who love u, or u love.
bu sometimes u can feel so like shit that u only think about urself in the moment and wanna die. its though
I am “alone”, meaning not in a romantic relationship. Do I wish to have a relationship? NO!
The common reason why people do not recommend them is because they have had their share of bad relationships. . . That’s not my reason. Yes, I have had negative/unhealthy relationships, however, I have held this belief WAY LONG before my negative experiences.
I find relationships to be almost pointless unless you view the significant other in an objectional way, which in that case I STRONGLY do not recommend relationships.
Relationships are for people to satisfy each other’s needs. These needs usually consist of: feeling needed/appreciated, someone to talk to, sex, etc. Now if both parties can satisfy each other’s needs, this would be great, however, this is uncommon (if even existent). Seems that someone is always on the receiving side, while the other person is being drained. Plus, these needs can be met without any other parties being involved in a relationship. (with sex you can just masturbate).
Dang, I have so much more to say. I just don’t know what you SHOULD be in a relationship, you know?
So I guess I’ll just scroll up now to see if anyone says you should be in a relationship, and prove why they are wrong.
Oh, and to sum it up. Relationships are nothing but two people using each other, and they always end bad. (And when they don’t end, both parties are usually miserable)
LMAO…
Let me get this straight. A bad reason for not getting in a relationship is because of the inevitability of emotional (and possibly physical) damage?
Hm, and that’s setting yourself up for failure? So, the implication here is that success is being miserable while pretending that you are doing what’s best. 🙂
Got it. GREAT ADVICE!
LittleMissNobody:
Boy do I know what you mean…
I find it great to kiss someone passionately. You can’t manage to do that alone, and kissing a stranger doesn’t really involve any passion (like clubbing
and kissing a random cutie. At least I can recall some gorgeous ones
i’ve kissed but that I couldn’t care less for in the end).
The only way to achieve it is either by being in a relationship with
someone you greatly care for or admire, and nevertheless someone
whom you have a crush
for a while (which implies being in a “i want you” state of mind…)
It’s just so awesome to go on a date and kiss someone you’ve been
wanting to.
I’d love to be on a relationship in which we could enjoy each other’s
company and have great fun (me and my partner). That would be great.
I’m not a huge fan of being alone, but I guess I’m too insecure and
, perfectionist and unstable to make a relationship work.
The guy really needs to put great effort in order to keep me around.
I need “a knight in shining armor” – When he finds me I’ll get
my “happy ever after” lol ;p
THIS is my favorite love movie-clip ever (from one of my favorite
movies)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4d8CcQ7kMmg
I can totally picture myself living that….*sigh, dreams away*
No, no children. And I’m torn between having any and not having any, I figure if I was in a solid marriage, I would lean towards having kids.
I have wanted to be in a relationship, but lately I find myself caring less and less. I feel that my romantic desperation is fading away to cynicism and hopelessness. However, after I was first hospitalized and put on antidepressants in high school, there was one girl who always made me feel happy whenever we talked. If you really feel lonely, then finding a soulmate may just give you the motivation to live. If it doesn’t work out, well, would you feel any worse than you do now?
I have a boyfriend. He’s the only one that make feel wanted in this world.
But even then, I would have to say no. Because I don’t really feel anything anymore, and i feel incredibly bad whenever I let him down. But I guess it all depends on what’s wrong with you. We all have different problems, so I can’t say it’d be different for you.