Lost Cause

Hey there Danny,

nowhere near are you a leech to anyone, even your parents. They work hard so they can provide you with a comfortable lifestyle and the opportunity to become independent and become something better than they are. You should not feel bad becuase you cannot contribute to the household financially. Be creative and contribute in other meaningful ways that will express you appreciation and respect for your parents and their hardwork. Be respectful and corteous to them, help around the house, do something for you parents that you don’t normally do, complete your assigned chores with out being told to and go above and beyond.

As for you sister, its her loss she wants to be rather immature and not be grateful she has a loving brother who actually acknowledges her presences. Your awesome for telling her hi, even in the face of rejection and adversity. Don’t stoop to her level and don’t give up, it pays off to maintain the compassionate person you are in life.

Now I will tell you this, there is nothing wrong with who you are. If you feel insecure and believe there is room for improvement then take that first step to change. If you feel losing weight or changing your lifestyle to one that is more healthier, and will reslut in you feeling happier and comfortable in your own skin, then do it.

Set a structure of change for your life. If video games are a source for a lot of your problems, then learn to minimize the time spent gaming or better, use it as an incentive and reward for getting you more important task done. Prioritize yourself, get your school work and studying out the way, if your planning on incorporating an excesize regiment into your daily routine then do that after. Get your chores of daily task out of the way and then the remainder of your time can be spent relaxing and gaming it up, guilt free and with a sense of accomplishment.

Allow yourself to game only after you completed all of your other tasks and then not only then you will make your parents proud with better grades, you will feel proud about yourself for making that change and becoming a better you.

I hope I helped and understand you have all the power to do anything you want. Just take that first step. Oh and for not having a girlfriend yet, don’t worry about it and don’t feel rushed l. Worry about you and I’m sure once you feel better about yourself your new found confidence will play a big role with the ladies. 🙂