The last thing he ever said to me was “I question the authenticity to the ‘horrors’ you describe as having happened to you.”
We broke up 3 months ago and I saw him for the first time today. Just walked past me, 3 seconds all up. It left me fucked for the rest of the day. I didn’t think someone who loved me, brought me into his home to meet his family, could deny the existence of my struggle in such a malicious way.
I feel like an idiot for still loving him.
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Happens to the best of us – don’t sweat it. I was hung up on an ex of mine for over three years but eventually I did what a buddy of mine in the Engineers does on the regular; I built a bridge and got over it.
And don’t worry about that comment you made on my post – I get what you’re saying. 🙂 Good evening to you though.
Funny thing is that the bastard is an engineer. Did you have any specific tips on moving on, stuff that helped? I feel like a bit of a nutter tbh.
I figured as much (call it intuition I s’pose) but yeah, in regards to moving on, I wouldn’t have a clue. All I did was make peace with my ex, explaining to her that we were horrible for each other and that’d never work between us – either in a romantic or platonic sense. Well, I also had work to keep me occupied after that too.
Other than that… I have no idea, sorry.
Love yourself more than you ever loved him, that is the 1st step! I was soo hung up on an ex once that I actually came up with this crazy idea… there was a light switch in my place that didnt go to anything. I decided one day to glue it to the off position and told myself that it symbolized his hold on me was off forever! Crazy as it was, it worked for me! So find a way, any way to put him in the past where he belongs and move on with your life!
Wow that’s a super creative suggestion! Thanks