I am in an emotionally abusive relationship but I’m also in love with the abuser. Im trapped and scared and Ive become depressed as well, Ive been thinking about how death would make it easier because of all the other stress I have and its not like I have a friend who would care because I have 0 friends, but right now Im hanging on for family and Im scared of what my relationship is going to do to me because I love this person so much.
~ SN
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How can you love them if they treat you badly?
The fact that they don’t treat you right shows they don’t love you back, and that they don’t care about you.
You may not have many friends now but that can always change later.
Death is a bit too extreme.
If you want to make things easier, why not leave that person and rather find someone who would actually care and treat you well?
I think the best thing SN is to get some time away from this person, either a couple of weeks or permanently.
My personal opinion is that people can’t and won’t change, only circumstances and situations change.
That sounds awful. You feel like you have no options. Wish I could be there for you. :/ I am sort of in the same situation except no one is actively abusing me. I’m just stuck in a cycle that… makes me resemble someone acting like they’re being abused.