I don’t understand what love is…
I understand when other people are in love and I thought I’ve been in love before but I don’t think it was real. The first person I ever told “I love you” to cheated on me with our best friend. Then the next person I said it to, when we were breaking up he said “I don’t think I ever actually loved you”. Then the next person fell in love with her best friend and left me because she actually loved her.
I don’t understand what I could be doing wrong for no one to just actually love me. In my opinion I’m pretty awesome and I treat them like Prince’s and Princess’s but I guess it just isn’t good enough.
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I’m sort of the worst person to give relationship advice, but i don’t think the way your exes left or cheated is a reflection of your love or treatment you gave them. I mean, i’ve been there, tried… i’d say anything at this point? caring, not caring, half caring, you name it! never cheated on anyone and… wouldn’t you know, i’ve been cheated on most of my relationships, and i’ve been the dumped one every single time.
I don’t think i’m a particularly good person for a relationship, but i’ve seen really awful people with almost no redeeming features whatsoever, treating their significant other like crap, and those relationships… last. Mine don’t, and yours seems to be a similar case and they don’t last either.
Guess that what i’m trying to put into words (poorly) is that you shouldn’t blame your way of loving or even doubt it, because while it might be true that you could tweak some things about it (there’s always something that could be done better), it takes two to tango, and no matter how hard you try, if the other person is not willing to put in the effort it’s not going to work. No dice. Nada.
Thank you! First that really means a lot to me that you commented and second I actually understand what you were saying. I especially like the line where you said it takes two to tango.
Ignore other people’s standards. Carve your own. People are trash. Well some. Nah most.
Are you bisexual? Your use of gender references was inconsistent. I’m a heterosexual male. Yeah, it’s not something we can put in a petri dish dish. I dunno… My last relationship was a nightmare. All she wanted was my body, but I wouldn’t give it up to her and she played her sociopathic games continually. She was just never wife material like her mother wasn’t. For now, I would just say: Keep searching, keep on learning and going with it and guard your heart well because it is made of fragile glass. More should be later. Gtg.
I dont know what love is, except for the love I feel for my family and friends. Ive never been in love. Ive never been in a relationship with anyone. I wish to feel it one day, but from what Ive seen around me, it brings nothing but pain. People hop from one person to the next claiming to love them one minute and losing that love the next. How do you fall out of love with someone?
Love is looking for someone for 30 years and finding out they were looking for me too.