So my boyfriend and his friends are talking about strip clubs in front of me while we are playing cards. And I threw out there that I am not ok with him going to one. He said that’s ok. Then I told him to expect me to be mad if you go. He has the nerve to tell me ok, I’ll stll gobto one anyways. Fuck you. If he goes to one knowing im not ok with it I’m done with him. That is not ok with me at all. You can tell me what I can and cannot do, but I can’t? Fuck you.
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I’m so fucking pissed off right now. I don’t even know if I should just stop play cards and stay in the bed room for the rest of the night. Or fucking sit there and pretend everything is ok. Just so I don’t make an ass out of myself in front of people. Uggghhhhh!!!
That’s pretty crappy…… I would rethink my relationship. But that me I’ve screwd up 3 marriages being unfeeling.
Maybe you should ask your boyfriend, “Babe, would you be cool with me going to a male strip club and getting a lap dance from one of the male strippers there?” Or, “would you be okay with me going to a nightclub and engaging in… sexy dancing with some random dude there?”
If he says yes, I’m fine with it, then he’s not operating on double standards. If he wouldn’t be fine with it, then he’s a douchebag and you should get rid of him.
Although, wanting to do things out of selfishness and not caring if you’d lose your girlfriend/boyfriend in the meantime… that’s not a quality you want in a significant other and you should also dump him if that’s the case. A guy who truly valued and respected you would not wish to upset you.
^^ all true!
This. is. truth.
Are you still there playing cards, or did you get up and leave?
Totrees; yeah it’s really freaking crappy. Ugh I can’t believe him!
Shit it sucks when someone you care about is not what you believed of him. That its in from of other friends is so incentive. Fuck I hate life changers. I wish I could just be there to be there. Take it slow and think things threw before acting
Front* insensitive*. ooops
Totrees; he’s going to get an ear full when his roommate goes to bed soon and his friend leaves.
Nepheliad; I’ll bring that up to him tonight. I was thinking about saying something like that before I left the room to go smoke. But decided not to. If you’re in a relationship I believe that if you’re going to a place like that or smiliar your other hahad to be ok with it. If they are not then they should respect it and no go. That’s apart of being in a relationship. He told me the other day I couldn’t hang out with a guy friend at his place. So I didn’t. Mind you that I ASKED HIM. Before considering going to my friends house. I respected his decision. Even though my friend that happens to be a male has been friends with me before I started dating him. I’ve hung out with my friend several times before dating him. And mind you my friend is my mothers age. So I can’t go see my friend but he can go to a strip club?! Fuck that!
Cordless; I curently live with him until the 1st, then he is giving me the boot. I recently lost my job. I got evicted from my house, I have literally no where to stay, except here. And he invited me to stay for one month. I still don’t have a job so I’ll be homless afyer the 1st if things don’t look my way. I sat here and finished playing cards. I stopped conversing with everyone and my expression on my face became blank.
I’m so sorry.
What a rotten situation. 🙁