I’m so tired of everything. the quickie marriage to a needy husband (thank god we don’t have kids together), the mean baby daddy, the holier than thou ex-wife, the annoying step-teenager, my teenager that I love dearly, who is my only joy, that is trying to fail, maybe to go live with her much better off financially father, then he gets to be the bad guy, not her, and just life in general.
my super needy husband, is a fucking looser, then he needs praise for simple shit that any grown man should be doing a million times better/more effective than he’s doing it. won’t pay bills on time, but if I bring anything up i’m being negative.
he’s fucking short, fat, and over all just blah, but horny all the damn time, worrying about bill is not a turn on. why would I want to fuck you when i’m worried about stupid shit. feeling like I can’t hold a conversation about anything with out it turning into a fight. then catch an attitude because I don’t want to suck his dick.
I am pretty much a looser too. i’m an on again off again drop out student, I have more certificates than I can count, but no degree. I will have an AA soon, but shit i’m not feeling very confident in my chosen field I had to pick something.
my looser husband depends on my student loans, so that we can use the refund check. when really it’s fucking community college, we/he should be able to pay the damn bill out of pocket. he makes a decent living, but money management and being a control freak makes it impossible to get anything done.
he had to have a new car, and with his shitty credit we had to use my name. so not only do I have unnecessary student loans, but I also have a car loan.
I think about it everyday, one of us needs to die. I wish everyday he would have an ‘accident’. I wonder how devastated it would be to my child, siblings, parents if I just did it.
good people die everyday, why can’t I be that tragic death?
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Death isn’t the answer.
If your credit is better than his, perhaps it’s time to seize the checkbook? Under all circumstances, your credit score is vital.
How about the things in your marriage that you do like it appreciate? I’m asking that there were good qualities that you saw in him. Are they still present?
Are you and your daughter close? Perhaps a heart-to-heart could help the relationship… and could alter her plans (if true) to go to her father’s.
Finally… If you’re genuinely not happy in your present situation, what would it take to turn things around? Are they feasible.
Death isn’t the solution. Although perhaps difficult, some hard decisions might have to be made.
unfortunately I do not have any “girlfriends” I can call on. so I hate to admit it but he is my best friend when we are not getting on each others last nerve. we do have some good times, but the other stuff hanging over our heads I can’t just ignore like he does. just because we are ‘good’ people does not mean that shit will just work out. so I have to get this degree and hope to find a job. which may be more difficult at my age. the school loan I will have to payback, but the car may have a terrible accident.
“Under all circumstances, your credit score is vital.”
^^^aaaaaahahahaha^^^
have an affair. Seriously. Why not? It will bring confrontation and confrontation brings clarity.
That credit score is important, my friend.
I wouldn’t suggest one have an affair.
Credit scores only matter when you’re taking out a loan or buying stuff on credit. I doubt anyone checks credit scores in the afterlife, or if you pay cash for shit in this lifetime.
Getting a job, having an insurance policy renewed, having your existing credit card APR assessed… The list goes on.
I’ve never had an employer or an insurance company check my credit score (that I’m aware of). I don’t use credit cards either.
To each his own, I suppose. If you want to stress out over something that seems trivial to me have at it. 🙂
Thanks for your approval. 🙂
If you dislike your husband so much, shouldn’t you divorce so that you can be a bit less miserable?
If you do want to stay with him, then discuss the things that are bothering you and see if you both can change your attitude. As Distant Road pointed out, you must have liked each other at one point (enough to marry, unless this was an arranged marriage).
unfortunately I do not have any “girlfriends” I can call on. so I hate to admit it but he is my best friend when we are not getting on each others last nerve. we do have some good times, but the other stuff hanging over our heads I can’t just ignore like he does. just because we are ‘good’ people does not mean that shit will just work out. so I have to get this degree and hope to find a job. which may be more difficult at my age. the school loan I will have to payback, but the car may have a terrible accident.