My fiancee cheated on me a month ago. He apologized, and I’ve forgiven him. However, the woman with whom he cheated is a friend of both of ours, and she invited both of us to her birthday pool party. I don’t want to be demanding and tell him absolutely not; we’re not going. At the same time, I don’t think I’m ready to watch the two of them hug in swimsuits.
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well,,, you already said you’ve forgiven him,, soo
Yea I probably couldn’t still be with that person at all there’s no way I could deal with a gf screwing a mutual friend. You would be well within your right to say no.
I don’t know what your definition of cheating is. But regardless I wouldn’t still be friends with a woman who had any intimate relations or what not with my fiancee. You can’t really trust him the same anymore and of course your gonna be jealous. I am different what i may do you may not. Idk i may have forgiven my fiancee if i had one but that would have been with time. And i would surely have been violent and verbal towards both him and her. But thats me. But in a general answer no i wouldn’t be comfortable going or him going. You dont have to be demanding just state how you feel that going wouldn’t be right especially after recent events. He should understand that and i’m not sure either of you should still be friends with that woman.
I did just what you said, alina, and before I got halfway done he said, “I think we just shouldn’t go. I know that it would make you feel insecure, even though you’re 10x more beautiful than her, and your feelings are more important to me than ever seeing her again.”
How nice to know that some men in the world aren’t scum, isn’t it? I didn’t think that was the case for a long time.
mhmm,, =/
And we never heard from her again, and our wedding is in 5 months, YAY!!!
Nice outcome… and congratulations on your upcoming wedding!
Great. Hopefully he can remAin faithful in the intervening period.
They say half of all marriages end in divorce. The ones that don’t end in divorce end in death.
2 months and 25 days to go. We’re going strong. True love exists, and all things can be overcome with forgiveness and communication of all feelings.
25 days. I’ve been in kind of a slump again, recently, but he makes sure I’m out of bed each morning, and patiently waits for me to feel better.