I have heard of traditional barrial in coffins as well as cremation. I would like to see if anyone knows all the ways I can request to dispose of myself.
You could try checking out a funeral home website in your area. The various States may have their own criteria.
Looks as though there are other options: natural burial, burial at sea are a couple I found. You could also find out about donating your body to a University for scientific research. Someone in my family did this.
I was thinking something a little more deserving for me such as Dissolution or Body Farm so i can either dissolved or get eaten by flys and maggots. I am looking for something that a bad person deserves.
I’m sorry. Also I am not sure, I mean I don’t know you but maybe you are not as bad as you think you are. That is such a shitty feeling to carry around with you and I really understand your restless desire to try to make up for it in some way.
You don’t need to be sorry for my mistakes and actions. I appreciate you understanding why i feel the way I do though. I know I will be able to make up for it If there is some kind of life or contentiousness after death. But my body deserves it just as much as my soul.
I wonder if there is anything after death, that’s a comforting thought. But the way I look at it is that our bodies are not…. I mean they have our brain to control them, but really they don’t have a mind of their own. Our bodies are just vessels. Like a car, you wouldn’t punish a car if you were running late and stuck in traffic would you?
And our brains have all this chemistry going on, we can’t really control our thoughts as easily as we want. They are a product of our lives.
I think about this stuff a lot and I can never get to any kind of straight points, so hopefully what I’m saying made some sort of sense.
That actually makes a ton of since, kinda gave me a different angle to look at the same thing. Weird…I cut my arms a lot as a teen and early 20’s. You just put a complete 180 spin on what I did to my body. I punished it where my soul actually has no cuts or deformities on it yet deserves it rather than my shell.
I’ve cut myself before, but I could never really get into it. Either because the knife was too dull or just that I couldn’t wrap my brain around the concept. I mean if we have souls I’m sure they would feel pain, but pain from things like heartbreak or loneliness or some kind of horrible realization.
I ended up shoving a steak knife thru my throat as some kind of officer came in my friends apartment. I was high on ice and thought everyone was going to kill me so i figured I would do it myself. I am not afraid of sharp objects anymore after that. Ended up in the hospital in the O.R. within an hr. I know sharp objects have no effect me so I have something else in mind. Anyways yea I would definitely take a bet your right that its gonna be some sort of regret, heart break, and pain of some sort.
I have been through a lot but at least 75% was me putting myself in a bad situation, making up a lie of some sort or doing something that is just wrong or illegal. I just have so many horrible memories I have been through and I cant get them out of my head. Its like a song stuck in your head but it comes with visuals and it has lasts years and years instead of a day or so. I feel if there is a life after life I will be stuck with the same memories and regrets so I may as well speed things up a bit rather than living 2 lives that have my memories. If there is nothing then that is fine too. Plus I also want me to prevent me accidentally hurting others in the future of my life so leaving here seems to be the most beneficial to other future acquaintances, family, friends, and girlfriends/wife.
Okay this is a bit of a tangent again, but I mean illegal things, I don’t always think they’re wrong, per sey, unless it’s murder or something harmful. But laws are put in place to keep the peace in a society and make things go smoother, and there are exemptions to every rule. And then a lot of times people mix up breaking rules with morals. Let’s say you’re 20 years old and you drink alcohol, that’s illegal but let’s be honest: its usually fine. They put the law in place to stop crowds of young people from getting into situations where they could get in trouble. That’s just one example, idk. All I’m saying is sure you’ve made mistakes, I’m sure you’ve done things that are actually bad because everyone has. But maybe, just maybe, you’re not as bad as you give yourself credit for.
But hey I’m just heading into work and we have to put our phones away so peace man.
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It will depend on where you live what options are available to you.
I live in the U.S. so how would I find out all the legal ways to be disposed?
You could try checking out a funeral home website in your area. The various States may have their own criteria.
Looks as though there are other options: natural burial, burial at sea are a couple I found. You could also find out about donating your body to a University for scientific research. Someone in my family did this.
I was thinking something a little more deserving for me such as Dissolution or Body Farm so i can either dissolved or get eaten by flys and maggots. I am looking for something that a bad person deserves.
Oh OK. I don’t know if a ‘bad person’ deserves one method over another. You want to punish your dead body in some way?
Yes.
I suppose, in that case, you could leave your body in an isolated area where it could be predated/consumed.
Basically I want it disrespected, but I know unfortunately it wont happen due to the legality. So i guess the most disrespectful way that is legal.
Yes I was planning on that already but just in case some one finds me before my body is entirely gone.
That’s will be the problem unless you can find somewhere remote and hidden.
Do you mind if I ask why you want it that way?
I have been just in general a horrible person in this life. The least I can do is disrespect it.
I’m sorry. Also I am not sure, I mean I don’t know you but maybe you are not as bad as you think you are. That is such a shitty feeling to carry around with you and I really understand your restless desire to try to make up for it in some way.
You don’t need to be sorry for my mistakes and actions. I appreciate you understanding why i feel the way I do though. I know I will be able to make up for it If there is some kind of life or contentiousness after death. But my body deserves it just as much as my soul.
I wonder if there is anything after death, that’s a comforting thought. But the way I look at it is that our bodies are not…. I mean they have our brain to control them, but really they don’t have a mind of their own. Our bodies are just vessels. Like a car, you wouldn’t punish a car if you were running late and stuck in traffic would you?
And our brains have all this chemistry going on, we can’t really control our thoughts as easily as we want. They are a product of our lives.
I think about this stuff a lot and I can never get to any kind of straight points, so hopefully what I’m saying made some sort of sense.
That actually makes a ton of since, kinda gave me a different angle to look at the same thing. Weird…I cut my arms a lot as a teen and early 20’s. You just put a complete 180 spin on what I did to my body. I punished it where my soul actually has no cuts or deformities on it yet deserves it rather than my shell.
I’ve cut myself before, but I could never really get into it. Either because the knife was too dull or just that I couldn’t wrap my brain around the concept. I mean if we have souls I’m sure they would feel pain, but pain from things like heartbreak or loneliness or some kind of horrible realization.
I know other people get very into and they think about it differently from me. I kind of over analyze things.
I ended up shoving a steak knife thru my throat as some kind of officer came in my friends apartment. I was high on ice and thought everyone was going to kill me so i figured I would do it myself. I am not afraid of sharp objects anymore after that. Ended up in the hospital in the O.R. within an hr. I know sharp objects have no effect me so I have something else in mind. Anyways yea I would definitely take a bet your right that its gonna be some sort of regret, heart break, and pain of some sort.
Man that is scary stuff that you had going on. I feel like you’ve been through a lot,
I have been through a lot but at least 75% was me putting myself in a bad situation, making up a lie of some sort or doing something that is just wrong or illegal. I just have so many horrible memories I have been through and I cant get them out of my head. Its like a song stuck in your head but it comes with visuals and it has lasts years and years instead of a day or so. I feel if there is a life after life I will be stuck with the same memories and regrets so I may as well speed things up a bit rather than living 2 lives that have my memories. If there is nothing then that is fine too. Plus I also want me to prevent me accidentally hurting others in the future of my life so leaving here seems to be the most beneficial to other future acquaintances, family, friends, and girlfriends/wife.
Okay this is a bit of a tangent again, but I mean illegal things, I don’t always think they’re wrong, per sey, unless it’s murder or something harmful. But laws are put in place to keep the peace in a society and make things go smoother, and there are exemptions to every rule. And then a lot of times people mix up breaking rules with morals. Let’s say you’re 20 years old and you drink alcohol, that’s illegal but let’s be honest: its usually fine. They put the law in place to stop crowds of young people from getting into situations where they could get in trouble. That’s just one example, idk. All I’m saying is sure you’ve made mistakes, I’m sure you’ve done things that are actually bad because everyone has. But maybe, just maybe, you’re not as bad as you give yourself credit for.
But hey I’m just heading into work and we have to put our phones away so peace man.
Also I’m not sure if this is out of place but it sounds a bit like you were describing ptsd?
I don’t know, no professional or any other person has talked to me about PTSD. I don’t even know what I would have PTSD about.