Want my life to end. Thinking about different methods every single day. Being bullied every day by my so called man. He mentally tortures me. How long can I hold on???
Help….
Is there no way you can get out? Go to a friend or family members house get away from your ‘man’ any way you can – please call your local domestic violence crisis center – mental abuse is STILL abuse
Thanks for the advice. But I have no one to turn to,own nothing and it’s hopeless. I have had depressions for years with suicidal thoughts..so that will still be a problem. Wish I can manage to leave..before I do “say goodnight”…
actually, he fact that you don’t own anything works in your favor for getting out – of the house/relationship – here is nothing tying you there, nothing that you have to worry about “him’ damaging, destroying or “holding hostage” over you. just pack you personal affects and go. now the question is … where? Is there no shelter for battered and abused women in your town? Perhaps a salvation army? can you inquire at your church (or the local church)?
if you are unsure or don’t have something like that, then perhaps as a possible option for gaining information – try the suicide hotline phone number – you could tell them that you aren’t actively considering but you are feeling trapped and need to find the right resources to help you. i’ve got to think they’ll have that information handy.
Thank you for the info. We do have a womans shelter, but I have been there two times before and it is not a good option. Was there because he physically abused me. Hate myself for going back to him. Nowadays he doesn’t beat me. I dream about running away from him..one-way ticket to anywhere…either that or…. Please excuse my language..it’s not my native one as I live in Norway
🙂 Well, I’m still alive and kicking. I’ve phoned a service called “the mental health”, but they tell me that it sounds like I am a person who can handle this and move on…on my own… Fact is that there are two methods running trough my brain every day.
On the other hand..I hate the thoughts of beeing dead.
To be or not….to live or not???
Thank you so much for your comments. 🙂
I’m sorry your mental health service put you off like that – they probably felt your situation was … well … more situational, rather than mental. i;m pretty settled on inert gas if/when the time/need should arise
I vote – ‘to live” – you seem like a very nice person who just needs to catch a break
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Is there no way you can get out? Go to a friend or family members house get away from your ‘man’ any way you can – please call your local domestic violence crisis center – mental abuse is STILL abuse
safe dawg
Thanks for the advice. But I have no one to turn to,own nothing and it’s hopeless. I have had depressions for years with suicidal thoughts..so that will still be a problem. Wish I can manage to leave..before I do “say goodnight”…
actually, he fact that you don’t own anything works in your favor for getting out – of the house/relationship – here is nothing tying you there, nothing that you have to worry about “him’ damaging, destroying or “holding hostage” over you. just pack you personal affects and go. now the question is … where? Is there no shelter for battered and abused women in your town? Perhaps a salvation army? can you inquire at your church (or the local church)?
if you are unsure or don’t have something like that, then perhaps as a possible option for gaining information – try the suicide hotline phone number – you could tell them that you aren’t actively considering but you are feeling trapped and need to find the right resources to help you. i’ve got to think they’ll have that information handy.
Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233
you have to give yourself a chance
caring dawg
Thank you for the info. We do have a womans shelter, but I have been there two times before and it is not a good option. Was there because he physically abused me. Hate myself for going back to him. Nowadays he doesn’t beat me. I dream about running away from him..one-way ticket to anywhere…either that or…. Please excuse my language..it’s not my native one as I live in Norway
LOL – your “language” is better than most who use English as a first language 😉
I gotta think if the situation is so bad that you are considering exit methods, the shelter can’t be worse.
Apologies – the phone number is for the USA
dawg
🙂 Well, I’m still alive and kicking. I’ve phoned a service called “the mental health”, but they tell me that it sounds like I am a person who can handle this and move on…on my own… Fact is that there are two methods running trough my brain every day.
On the other hand..I hate the thoughts of beeing dead.
To be or not….to live or not???
Thank you so much for your comments. 🙂
… and in somewhat better spirits which is good 🙂
I’m sorry your mental health service put you off like that – they probably felt your situation was … well … more situational, rather than mental. i;m pretty settled on inert gas if/when the time/need should arise
I vote – ‘to live” – you seem like a very nice person who just needs to catch a break
And … you’re welcome 😉
dawg