My mind plagues me.
On a second to second basis, it frantically searches for something of worth. Meaning. Value.
I did college. I tried settling down. As my list of accomplishments lengthens so does my desire to end it.
Why? I have good job, a degree, a child, so much to want for but I struggle to do it anymore.
Recently, I have been filled with a somber darkness. An acceptance of the conditions of life. Things never get better or worse. It’s only an illusion of getting worse, or better depending on your plight.
I realized that life is a series of chemical reactions. Leading us from one moment to the next into these extreme highs and lows and the point of the game seems to be maintaining your sanity and celebrating the highs and dispelling the lows.
Now as one accomplishment bleeds into the next I feel nothing. And no desire to look for something to renew my passion.
Every friend I have is entangled in some sort of relationship and whether happy or not, they view my perspective as that of a subterranean homesick alien, a lost, lonely soul with no connection to this time or place.
I haven’t decided how, when, or if I’m going to end it all. Maybe if I can find a place where me and things go together, I can make sense of it all.
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please don’t just give up. your body knows your thoughts, but it still lives – why? because you shouldn’t give up. please don’t think that your perspective changes anything that is true, either. those ‘friends’ you have that think so low of you – they’re not so important themselves. right now you’ve got to figure out what you’re doing with your life. you need to define the great line – how you’ll live life.
will you please read my post here? http://suicideproject.org/2009/12/please-let-me-help-21/
thank you for reading. please take care of yourself, at least for your child’s sake.
I am sorry, but you cannot do that. You have a child and you cannot do that to him. I really mean it. You simply cannot do that because you will traumatise him and that is, in this case, spitful selfish from a father to his own descendance.