It seem that my parents are partially to blame for the black hole the resides inside me. They say they want to best for me, but that includes me not getting to do anything….ever like the time I asked to go to the mall I asked mom and she said ask dad. You know what dad said???? BULLSHIT! Why he said this??? I have no earthly idea. They think its ok for me to just sit here doing nothing while the world goes by. When mom is working, dad is hunting, and little brother is with his friend and being 16 I should have a license but they don’t want me to drive. So I don’t and I couldn’t do jack crap. And they make me feel like shit all the time. My grades aren’t good enough. I’m mediocore. I can’t get into college at the rate I’m going. I can’t do anything right…..
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but think there is a reason why
u might not be able to see it
and work on your grades so u can have a better future and a better life so u can go to the mall when ever u want
See the mall is just a metaphore if I ask my parents if I can go anywhere with my friends and with out them they freak out and opn the other hand my 11 year old brother can ask and they say alright you can go
ya think what the differnce between u two
Apex, I hope I don’t sound too old here…not to dog on your folks, but many do not do a good job, that’s just a reality, I came from a really dysfunctional family. A couple things you may or may not know. Try not to take on your folks negative stuff, no matter how they feel about you. Cause your anger will just eat at you and that’s no good for you. If they can’t reflect back to you what a great person you are, then try to cultivate it for yourself….it’s a challenge I know. Good luck.
Well parents are scared of what teenagers do. my parents tried to shelter me and i wished they tried a little harder. They are only human and do not always no whats right but teenagers are fucking hard to control. especially the way the world is now the best way to make their life easy is to keep u isolated.
youve pritty much got 2 options
a) Rebel. do what u want – parents will resent u for a while and wont give u anything but u get to do what u want and prolly end up with a average job
B) Sit on ur arse, study hard, learn what u need to learn to pass. Grades mean nothing but getting into college/university is worth it
get a $100, 000+ live the rest of ur life like the rest of the $100, 000+ salary club.
both end up the same, I rebelled and now im unemployed with not much hope trying to find some way to survive