This goes out to all those who encourage others to take their own life and not to those who are desperately seeking help. Â To the latter, I am so sorry that life is so bad and that there seems like no other option is out there. Â I can only hope that you can find some kind of peace and happiness eventually.
I have been on this site for a few days now just looking at different posts and have to say from a person who has lost a Son through suicide I am so sick of looking at all the crap on here.
So many people on here feel so bloody sorry for themselves and do not give one thought to the people left behind to pick up the pieces after you have taken your life. Â Do you have any idea what it feels like? OK, you may be feeling as though there is nothing left to live for and that (as I have seen sooooo many times…YAWN) it is ”your right to die” , ”people die anyway”, ”we are not someone else’s possessions” Â and so many more excuses.
Do you think it is OK to end your suffering and pain but cause so many people who love and care for you to have to endure that pain for the rest of their lives? Â I have wanted to die so may times since my Son took his life but I am not going to because I would not for one second put anyone through what I have been through over the last year. Â When someone dies naturally then it is accepted more, obviously people die through murder and accidents as well but when someone die’s through suicide it is NEVER accepted, it is NEVER something a mother/father/sister/brother etc… can come to terms with.
I have seen people on here try and help others and then someone will come in and abuse them and make them feel like they are in the wrong for doing so, why do that? If you have the right to take your own life or encourage someone else to do it then others have just as much right to try and find a way to help them. Â If you want to take your own life then that is your choice but to encourage someone else to do it is nothing short of murder. Â I saw a post from someone who is just 14 yrs old who wanted to know the most painless way to die, most people who commented tried to say at 14 you are too young to make that decision and try and see what life is like in a few years but one (ROCKY90) actually told him/her the best way……it absolutely beggars belief that this can be allowed to happen. Â This person is obviously getting some kind of kick out of encouraging others to do it but while he is still typing his ”helpful advice” he has not taken his own life, why is that? Â Is this type of inciting someone to take their own life not illegal??
I am not cold hearted, just devastated by a grief that no one can imagine unless they have been through the same thing and the pain is no worse than the pain you are all feeling let me tell you that.
Wake up and see the damage you are doing, you are not martyrs although I thinks some of you think you are, you are very very selfish.