Why is suicide selfish?

Someone wrote this and I really like it.
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I find people that scream “selfish” to those who consider suicide sort of…well…selfish! It seems like they’re saying “I don’t mind as long as YOU are the one that’s suffering unbearable pain for years on end with no end in sight. Buck up…it’ll get better…maybe.” The second someone actually commits suicide however and it’s them feeling any sense of pain, all of a sudden it’s a big problem. Are you saying that your feelings and emotions are more important than someone considering suicide? The huge difference is that a lot of people never get over suicide, whereas you will probably be over the death in a matter of months. How could you reasonably tell someone to put you before them, and then call them selfish if they don’t? I seriously think if a person came to any of you and actually professed the true darkness they felt, you would run in the opposite direction – I know from experience actually. Which also begs the question, if you’re not willing to care or help, what gives you any right to comment on my choices in life? The moment you chose not the help is the moment you lost all right to judge the situation.