I’m sobbing as I write this.
My fiance got arrested because his lawyers never took care of his traffic tickets. Every time he called they said he was fine. He kept rushing me to grab the money we had and bail him out. I’m 17, I can’t drive, i’m neurotic, and have severe depression, haven’t been taking my meds, he’s afraid of jail/cop severely, I’ve been suicidal all week…
I call every adult I know to see if they can take me, my brother Mason telling me angrily to calm down as he’s “helping” me too slow. I couldn’t go slow. I Could NOT.
I’m talking to my dad on the phone who’s heading over… He knew “we recovered a lost item of yours” was a trap. He knew and told. My fiance` ignored.. My dad is telling me to calm down, I yell. So does my 16 year old brother.
I lose it and punch him in the face, scream, drop the phone, get juice splashed all over us and everywhere, he punches me in the lip, I feel no pain at this point. I’m screaming that I hate him, he’s trying to pin me down, I loose my glasses (Surprised now they didn’t break). He knows not to tell me to calm down… I bite his wrist til he bleeds, he bites my finger… I can’t feel it right now if it stays still, but it hurts. It’s not bleeding because some how the skin didn’t break. He screams at me to calm down the fucking hypocrite. I’m getting angry all over again just thinking about.
I hope I die soon.
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Why punch someone who was trying to help?
It is strange that neither the ‘fiance’ nor the lawyer could handle a simple traffic ticket.
Fuck you. What would you do if the love of your life wasbeing arrested while he/she had major anxiety and fear of cops? Also, my brother is a huge asshole, and had been forever. He wasn’t helping, he did nearly nothing. In an urgent situation he was going as slow as a gaddamned snail and telling me to calm down when if we didn’t go extremely fast my fiance would have been thrown in a jail cell for 3 days while he’s having panic attacks and I end up alone again. I couldn’t stand that. I also had my father yelling at me in one ear and him yelling in the other.
You don’t know what it’s like to just lose it. And don’t fucking insult my fiance. Half-price lawers is fucking horrible, he didn’t know this. If you’re here to troll just leave.
Um.. i did not know yore brother had superpowers like ,,Rewind the time”… What do you want from him? Change the system???
3days in jail and a fear of cops.is he black? No? Then F@CK HIM all the way…
You broth it all on yore self and now yor ,,F@CT UP”… If you had yoused yor brains at least once…………
DO NOT INSULT OTHERS!!!
You’re insulting her right hypocrite! Just shut up, shes going through a really tough time right now, shes suicidal, and the last thing she needs is to be insulted by a fool like yourself. You’re just as big a troll as that other guy. Are you stupid? No? Then fuck off
*Right now
Who’s your fianre’s lawyer cause i want to hire him. Is he cheap.
Thank you, LiveNoLonger. <3
I'm feeling a tad better. My brother and I made up and we got my fiance out of the situation. The Marshall was sweet.
I may need a tetanus shot from my brother biting me (It didn't bleed but, it's puss-ing.) and I have an extreme fear of needles.
I'm still pretty down about other things going on though… But better than I was this morning.
My pleasure, I just cant stand it when males insult females. I believe that they need to be treated with the most respect because a lot of them have it worse than us, especially you, for that matter. And good thing you’re feeling better. Does your finger still hurt?
Her violence and behavior was not conducive to the situation. In emergencies, people with cool heads make better judgements then those screaming or losing it.
The comment about her fiance and lawyer was meant to draw concern to the story. That communication problem may foreshadow more serious issues to come. Addressing it early would be prudent.
Then again, I’m a troll who reads about your ordeal and offers an ear. Hey if it’s not appreciated, I won’t waste my time again.
*than
“You’re just as big a troll as that other guy. Are you stupid? No? Then fuck off” -LiveNoLonger
If you’re a troll, then bravo.
@LiveNoLonger: Fuck gender. Neither deserve special attention. We’re all equals here. Don’t be such a sycophant. It’s degrading.
@ThatPsychoBitch & LiveNoLonger: And, “unbecoming” is NO troll. I’m FEMALE and I completely agree with him. This: “Her violence and behavior was not conducive to the situation. In emergencies, people with cool heads make better judgements then those screaming or losing it.” <== Not an insult. It is much needed advice. Obviously, what you people lack is maturity.
Good day.
Unbecoming, im no troll.
Umbra artist, im no sycophant.
And I never said that was an insult. What RAGDOLL said was an insult.
And are you assuming that you do not lack maturity? Because if so, I disagree.
Truce. This was a messed up situation, a misunderstanding. Let us all not be hateful or “trolls”, etc. Let’s follow the rules, and be nice/supportive.
Agreed
A civil ending to a petty argument. Thanks Umbra.
Ok, so im an ass… How do i delete me comment?
But come on… you are 17 and you already have a fiance…I’m i the only one thinking this is way ,,over the limit”?
This situation reminded me one time on tv.: A male beats a living f… out of his wife and shes like:,,Come on dont leave me, im in love with you” (I was cracking dead)…
Up, me fault, ho is going to trow the firs rock?
@ragdoll – You’re not the only one. I just chose to address the more pressing issue.
Well I apologize to anyone I insulted.
But when someone is suicidal and in a bad mood, you handle the situation with the person like LiveNoLonger did.
I also lived with a horribly violent autistic/schizophrenic/psychopath for 16 years. My primal instinct is if you get angry you attack. Really, I’d understand ya’ll freaking out on me if I had done it more than once, but I never fought anyone in my life except that one time. And it was my own brother, not some helpless person on the street. Sure, it doesn’t make it right but it keeps it from getting worse. =3=