There are many cases of people simply not being able to bleed out enough from a slit wrist. One of the problems being, that once you slit one wrist, sometimes it’s too deep for you to have full control to use that hand to slit the other wrist.
‘hapiness’ doesn’t come in one big chunk, in a pretty box with a big bow on it. It comes in small ways, you find it in places you wouldn’t think to look, and sometimes it’s so small you don’t even notice it.
Pain is different – pain burns and it’s impossible to ignore.
Problem is, Pain sometimes blocks out Happiness. So maybe you need to address the Pain first. So, what is your pain?
Cutting has a really low rate of success when you compare it to other methods. According to the statistics I have, lethality is 6.0%, agony is 71/100 and you take an average of 105 minutes to die.
Bottom line: Don’t do it.
What has happened in your life that has sucked all the happiness out of it?
@teshyn, holy crap if I had a choice that’s what I would choose! 6% WTF. Saying that, I did try to give blood one time and the blood just wouldn’t come out…
@one _day & @teshyn wat hurts is knowing im all alone knowing that im too much of a failure for anyone to care about knowing that even my own father hates me and wants me gone knowing that il never b gud enuf that all i am is trash, evryone hates me im constantly bullied at skool, i try so hard only to b told everyday that im not gud enuf that im useless and their right i am and my aunt who iwas really close to is dead and she was the only person who realy loved and understood me, ihav no one to help me through this any more
You’re still in school? so how can you be a failure, you’re too young to have even tried!
I’m sorry you are bullied, that blows. But it WILL get better after school, I promise. And I doubt that EVERYONE hates you, I doubt you are not good enough. I’m sorry your aunt died, but there was once someone who understood you so I’m sure that there can be someone, again.
@Emilse: You are NOT a failure. Does your school provide support for bullying? Perhaps you can talk to a trusted teacher, or a school counsellor (if there is one).
You are good enough. You’re good enough for yourself, it doesn’t matter what others say. Shall I tell you that everyday?
I’m sorry about your aunt. No one can replace her, of course, but we’re always here to listen if you need to talk.
@one_day: I tried slitting my neck before but it didn’t work. Totally underestimated the kind of strength you need to do it properly, plus the knife wasn’t sharp enough. Seriously, there are more effective ways.
@One_day yea im a senior & i consider myself a failure becuase i fail at evrything i try no matter wat i fail and evryone else sees me as a failure too & thanks i realy miss her but she was unique in that she understood wenever itry to talk toany one else they act lyk they act lyk they culdnt care less its lyk if ur not all cheerful and smiley we dnt wanna b around u, my so called friends seem to dissapear wen ineed someone the most
@teshyn no idnt think we hav any groups for that and ive nvr thought abou talking to a teacher about it and i apreciate the thought but i kno wat i am & thank u she was very impotant to me
I think you’re only a failure because you haven’t tried yet… just ride school out at least. Honestly, people in school can be dicks, and it’s easy to think that EVERYONE is like that, but honestly, once you get out of school, you will meet more people who don’t want you to pretend and smile all the time… And I’m sure people care, but everyone has a different way of showing it, thats all.
School is a horrible torture, and anyone who makes it out alive deserves a medal.
@ one _day i undrstand wat ur saying but im just afraid wen i get out ther il end up failing all ovr again if icnt deal wit all the shit in my lyf now and in highschool how am i going to b able to handle the real world
@Emilse: Shit is relative. Like what you pointed out, high school isn’t the “real world”, so things may get better. Maybe you’re more suited to the real world than to high school. Who knows?
@Teshyn i used to think things wuld get bttr after highschool but im starting to lose hope
@one_day Ihav doubts that things will ever get bttr but seeing as how according to teshyn slitting ur wrists has little chance of working, i promise to sleep on it
Don’t lose hope until after you’ve tried it! And, things will get better, but one of the things that stops them from getting better is YOU thinking that they won’t! So yes please sleep on it… and… can you talk to a councillor about it?
Well for sure, you should talk to someone before slitting your wrists! You should try everything, before trying that. As for your school councillors… maybe they can’t ‘help’ you, but mostly they’re there to talk to you. It’s amazing how much talking can help, how much better it makes you feel to get stuff off your chest. So don’t knock it before you try it?
atta girl! And if it doesn’t make you feel better, at least they will have a better, maybe they can recomend a psychologist. but yeah, start small and try everything 🙂
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There are many cases of people simply not being able to bleed out enough from a slit wrist. One of the problems being, that once you slit one wrist, sometimes it’s too deep for you to have full control to use that hand to slit the other wrist.
So, why do you want to die?
I dnt think a life without happines is worth living and no mattr how hard itry their isnt any happines in my lyf
‘hapiness’ doesn’t come in one big chunk, in a pretty box with a big bow on it. It comes in small ways, you find it in places you wouldn’t think to look, and sometimes it’s so small you don’t even notice it.
Pain is different – pain burns and it’s impossible to ignore.
Problem is, Pain sometimes blocks out Happiness. So maybe you need to address the Pain first. So, what is your pain?
Cutting has a really low rate of success when you compare it to other methods. According to the statistics I have, lethality is 6.0%, agony is 71/100 and you take an average of 105 minutes to die.
Bottom line: Don’t do it.
What has happened in your life that has sucked all the happiness out of it?
@teshyn, holy crap if I had a choice that’s what I would choose! 6% WTF. Saying that, I did try to give blood one time and the blood just wouldn’t come out…
@one _day & @teshyn wat hurts is knowing im all alone knowing that im too much of a failure for anyone to care about knowing that even my own father hates me and wants me gone knowing that il never b gud enuf that all i am is trash, evryone hates me im constantly bullied at skool, i try so hard only to b told everyday that im not gud enuf that im useless and their right i am and my aunt who iwas really close to is dead and she was the only person who realy loved and understood me, ihav no one to help me through this any more
You’re still in school? so how can you be a failure, you’re too young to have even tried!
I’m sorry you are bullied, that blows. But it WILL get better after school, I promise. And I doubt that EVERYONE hates you, I doubt you are not good enough. I’m sorry your aunt died, but there was once someone who understood you so I’m sure that there can be someone, again.
@Emilse: You are NOT a failure. Does your school provide support for bullying? Perhaps you can talk to a trusted teacher, or a school counsellor (if there is one).
You are good enough. You’re good enough for yourself, it doesn’t matter what others say. Shall I tell you that everyday?
I’m sorry about your aunt. No one can replace her, of course, but we’re always here to listen if you need to talk.
@one_day: I tried slitting my neck before but it didn’t work. Totally underestimated the kind of strength you need to do it properly, plus the knife wasn’t sharp enough. Seriously, there are more effective ways.
@One_day yea im a senior & i consider myself a failure becuase i fail at evrything i try no matter wat i fail and evryone else sees me as a failure too & thanks i realy miss her but she was unique in that she understood wenever itry to talk toany one else they act lyk they act lyk they culdnt care less its lyk if ur not all cheerful and smiley we dnt wanna b around u, my so called friends seem to dissapear wen ineed someone the most
@teshyn no idnt think we hav any groups for that and ive nvr thought abou talking to a teacher about it and i apreciate the thought but i kno wat i am & thank u she was very impotant to me
I think you’re only a failure because you haven’t tried yet… just ride school out at least. Honestly, people in school can be dicks, and it’s easy to think that EVERYONE is like that, but honestly, once you get out of school, you will meet more people who don’t want you to pretend and smile all the time… And I’m sure people care, but everyone has a different way of showing it, thats all.
School is a horrible torture, and anyone who makes it out alive deserves a medal.
@ one _day i undrstand wat ur saying but im just afraid wen i get out ther il end up failing all ovr again if icnt deal wit all the shit in my lyf now and in highschool how am i going to b able to handle the real world
@Emilse: Shit is relative. Like what you pointed out, high school isn’t the “real world”, so things may get better. Maybe you’re more suited to the real world than to high school. Who knows?
Teshyn has a point, some people are more suited to ‘the real world’. Either way, just wait and see, please?
@Teshyn i used to think things wuld get bttr after highschool but im starting to lose hope
@one_day Ihav doubts that things will ever get bttr but seeing as how according to teshyn slitting ur wrists has little chance of working, i promise to sleep on it
Don’t lose hope until after you’ve tried it! And, things will get better, but one of the things that stops them from getting better is YOU thinking that they won’t! So yes please sleep on it… and… can you talk to a councillor about it?
@One_day ive thought about going to see a psychologist & as for our skool counselors thyre nice people but ijust dnt feel lyk they can help me
Well for sure, you should talk to someone before slitting your wrists! You should try everything, before trying that. As for your school councillors… maybe they can’t ‘help’ you, but mostly they’re there to talk to you. It’s amazing how much talking can help, how much better it makes you feel to get stuff off your chest. So don’t knock it before you try it?
@One_day ig ur i shuld giv it a try first, il try and talk to a counsellor at school tomorow idk if itl help but ihav nothing to lose trying
atta girl! And if it doesn’t make you feel better, at least they will have a better, maybe they can recomend a psychologist. but yeah, start small and try everything 🙂
Yea il def tlk to a counselor tomorow, thank u for listening and for the advice i apreciate it