I really do think I marry Satan. My husband for 6 years give me nothing but heartaches and pains. He calls me names, any names you can think about. Horrible, horrible names. He blames me for everything that don’t go on his way. He blames me for anything bad happens in our house, in our life. I tried to fight him back but I am always a weakling, I always lost, I always get hurts. I think he is Satan disguise as a man. I want to run but I have nowhere to go and I couldn’t leave our 2 young kids with him. I once love this man so much but with the 6 years of abuse, all that love was gone long time ago. I hate him, I hate him so much but I don’t have friends, I don’t have family that I can rely on. I’m alone, so alone. All i have to continue to live are my kids. They are too young to lose a mother. 19 months and 5 months old. I couldn’t leave them. So I’m here still stuck with Satan. I told myself, it’s ok I will keep all the pain inside, I will just cry it out. This I will do for my kids. But I pray to God everyday to give me more strength to continue to live. You see, I am from another country so I don’t have any family here that’s close to me and I don’t have friends either co’z since I live with my husband I never got the chance to work. I don’t drive co’z he won’t teach me. I don’t have money either for he won’t give me any. I’m going crazy and I really don’t know what to do anymore. I am stuck with him with nothing on my name. That’s one reason I couldn’t leave him co’z I don’t have a single penny on my wallet. He said I’m lucky he gave me a roof over my head, food to eat and I am still ungrateful. Maybe he is right, I should just be happy to have a roof over my head and food to eat. Since we been married, I think he bought me like 5 total of Clothes. So I got some clothes from a free place every now and then. Well, life still goes on for now. for how long? I don’t know. But I am tired of this life. I am so tired.
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I can’t imagine what it’s like to go through all that… You’re not being ungrateful at all. I think it’s great that you’re staying here for your kids. You’re being amazingly brave, sticking through everything. But you shouldn’t have to put up with this much. I can’t offer much practical advice, but maybe you could look into any jobs you could get in your area, and places you could move. You might be able to find an organization online or a place nearby that can help if you don’t know where to start. It doesn’t sound like you can easily take off this second, but maybe you start putting together a plan to move away? No one should feel trapped into staying in a marriage that’s making them feel so awful, and you should be able to be free and happy with your children. It must seem so daunting to try to escape, but I promise you it’s possible – just one step at a time 🙂
hello and welcome….would help if i knew what country you were in…..i have lived a similiar reality….the last time he beat he like a dog in the street….lost consciousness four times…in front of my babies…they were 2 and 3….i was blessed….my mother found out….even though she was the one who used to tell me….you made your bed you lie in it….when she saw me she changed her mind…..the shame…..it kept me from asking for help
the truth is the shame belongs to your husband…..i know that now….please don’t own it….it is not your shame….stand up…..be strong….what do you want your children to see….are there any shelters for abused women where you are…social services….hotlines…..to be strong does not necessarily mean to stand up to the demon….that is very dangerous…have tried it….better at it now….
so many unknowns….cultural issues….really depends where you live unfortunately
you don’t deserve it, you haven’t asked for it….please don’t own it….but if at all possible leave…it is very dangerous
Blessings
Amakua