I was an honors student in high school, and I graduated in the top 2% of my class in June, 2010. I always hated school, but I thought college would be much better. I was accepted to several prestigious colleges, with large scholarships. I had been feeling depressed, but not suicidal. When I got to college, I had a really good time for a few weeks. I finally got to connect with other gay people. Then I had a string of panic attacks, and began planning to kill myself. Luckily, someone notified a therapist on campus, and I returned home on her suggestion. I started therapy, and I began taking antidepressants. I enrolled at a college near my hometown. I attempted suicide a few months later. My parents found me in the car, in the garage, with the motor running. I spent two weeks in the hospital. I am doing better now: I have a great therapist and my medications are working well. It still isn’t easy. It took me three months and over three hundred applications to get a job that I despise. I am quite lonely. I don’t know what happens now.
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I graduated May of 2010, Feeling sooo much better out of high school. Got the hell away from school period, see if I ever take another class again of anything
you’ve found a good site to have others that understand
It’s important to find an outlet or stimuli for your creativity/academia. If you don’t find this kind of outlet, chances are you are denying a part of yourself, your brain. I am always less depressed when I have adequate creative/intellectual stimuli. So find something that resonates with you, that you can engage with, and then find social groups centred around that so you have people to challenge you. I think mankind gets very frustrated without challenges…
I found Academic studying depressing and boring.I spent 3 years on one subject and another 3 some years later doing another.I still dunno what I want to do.I feel I would have been better off leaving school and getting a job in a shop or something than worrying about passing exams all the time.
@noom, different things work for different people which is why you just gotta find what resonates with you. That is why I don’t believe in certain ‘things’ (house, car, good job) making you happy because everyone is different so obviously different things make different people happy.
but… think it’s safe to say that if you spend even one year studying something and it doesn’t interest you, you’re probably wasting you time.
1. if you’re not dating, start; you have a job, you have money, that counts for something
2. find something you can be obsessed with (as long as it’s not killing yourself…)
Wow… I didn’t expect all those responses. Thanks everyone!