I don’t know what to do. I’m a little teenage girl, who has her whole life in front of her. A nice middleclass family, school and lots of friends, but I only want him. I know it sounds stupid and pathetic, it’s just teen love. There are so many prejudice for teen love. It’s nothing serious, teenagers don’t know anything.. But I know that it hurts. Awfully much. It hurts.
He doesn’t want me anymore.. I have no idea why, but he ruined my life. I didn’t see our relationship as other young teenagers – we were different
We had planned our future, our kids names – everything, but then he dumped me. And I feel s horrible empty.
I have done a couple things, cutting, but it isn’t enough anymore. It hurts so bad and I just can’t move on. He was my everything and still is. I want to die, but don’t know how. I don’t think I will ever have the guts for it. I’m too afraid of what will happen to my family, how it will hurt them.
I want to die. But just to see how he will react, To hurt him as he hurted me. To make sure that he knows that my death is his fault. Only his.
I want help – want a way to move on. Help me, please.
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It wasn’t love. And you can NOT kill yourself over a guy. You say you want to die just to see how he will react. Well, he might not even react and you’ll have wasted your life over him. If you want to hurt him just date his best friend or something. Petty but it works. I wouldn’t suggest it but it’s better than what you are considering! Also, please get over him. From experience the only way you can do that is through Time. You’ll need a lot of time, years maybe depending how long you guys were dating. Also, you can try a rebound. Good luck.
The reasons don’t matter. If you hurt, you hurt. I’m glad you told us. Tell someone close to you, who can help you. Probably not your parents, they might not understand, and even if they did, they probably wouldn’t say the right thing.
Listen: You won’t get in trouble for asking for help. That’s what almost kept me from telling someone. I was afraid they’d be angry with me. Find a phone number, a crisis line, anything. They’re there to be asked for help. That’s their job. They’re already paid for. You’re not adding to their burden by talking to them.
David
its not worth it over a teenage love… i had kinda the same situation except im a guy but i know how you feel… i feel in love with this girl i met in high school we had talked about getting married and having kids too,but very long story short she ended up breaking my heart and i almost killed myself over her even though she was whore, and just now starting to get over it… but idk
i guess im saying don’t let one unsuccsesful relationship take your life and i know it hurts and it wont be easy but i know you can get through this
It may hurt but you have to remember the fun you had while going out, try find someone else but whatever you do dont give up.
Stay Strong get through this I’ll be hoping you do :’)
I know how you feel. I was dumped by my boyfriend, which is how I stumbled across this website in the first place. Teenage love is one of the most misunderstood forms of love. It’s also one of the most powerful. You’ve got hormones that amplify every emotion you have in you. Sometimes that’s a good thing, like if you are experiencing something happy. But break ups make you feel like someone took your heart, ripped it up, and then threw it in a fire. I still can’t look at the necklace he gave me without being overcome with grief. But, I’m much better now. It’s because someone saved me from doing something stupid a year ago that I’m still alive. You seem like a very smart girl, and there is a future for you. It may seem cheesy, but time heals all wounds. I don’t know you, but I feel like you and I are quite similar. I would feel guilty if you killed yourself, and if you might not have if only I had said something else. But I can’t. I don’t know the secrets of life. I’m still figuring them out. I wish you the best of luck.
remember you would not be around to see how he would react if you were dead.
suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem, i speak as a survivor.
I can resonate with wanting to see how someone reacts at your funeral. However, that is impossible, so I would try to talk this out with your friends and maybe see a therapist.
If your not 100% sure, then do not make a permanent solution to a seemingly temporary problem.
I wish you the best.
You think you’ll feel better when you’re going out with this guy…that’s all! But then what…do you know how many relationships start amazing, then the fizzle…it’s alright, it’s okay, it happens and is perfectly normal. Life does go on.
Okay, that’s cool, so it didn’t work out. You think you want to die as a result…you do not want to die…lots of girls hurt me but I care about my well being too much to give myself away to the idea of someone else having power over my feelings and thoughts so as to bring myself to the point of self harm.
This is the quintessential putting all your eggs in one basket. Oy…lighten up, relationships are one tiny part of life. Focus on having fun for yourself. You know this!!!
No one has the power to ruin your life…NO ONE! Only your belief that they do.
Get with a counselor and change your thinking and work on your self esteem. If your parents do not foster it within you, then I”m here to tell you to find a way! Too many people need the support on this forum for very serious health reasons and you are not a candidate for being here. Tough love in these words, I know! Follow them.
Thanks.. Really, thanks to you all!
You made me see the ligt. I’d never listen to the people around me, all my friends that I love so much. But funny enough, I really do listen to you guys. It’s just easier to tell about all my problems and i’m so grateful for, that you wanted to use some of the minutes of your life to write a comment. It really helped me. I’m happier now, not much, but happier and I think I’m going in the right direction.
It’s just he’s still a part of my life, because.. I really can’t let him go! All the great memories we had, his presents which remembers me about him and all the time we had together. I’m sure time will heal all wounds – it will just take long, but I won’t die.
Thanks again so much for your time, I know some of you had a hard time yourself also, and that you had the time for me – I really appreciate it.
A helpful Stranger: We seems quite similiar. It’s nice to have someone, who knows how it is.
Most of you came with really good advices and it’s interesting to hear about your lives to.. I know I’ve said it a lot, but thank you! So much. It really saved my life in an odd way…:)