I’ve been depressed all my life, it runs in my family. It really sucks, but you get used to it after a while. I’ve always acted differently then other kids my age, I guess you could say I was more mature than them. And because of that, I never really fit in. I had some friends, one I’m still friends with now, but I never really felt complete.
Fourth grade was the first time I thought about ending it all. I just didn’t want to live anymore. I don’t really remember it that much. I never came up with a plan, and it never happened. I must have mentioned it to my parents, because they admitted me to a behavioral health hospital. I can tell you honestly that it was horrible. I was the youngest one there. It was frightening, I had to watch someone cut while I ate my lunch.
Now I am a freshman in high school, and I am severely depressed. It’s not fun, but you all probably already know that. I have a great group of friends, they have helped me whenever I need it. My family is so loving and supportive, they help me whenever I need it.
It’s not enough. I’m so unhappy with my life. I’ve cut, hoping that it will help, but it only works in the moment, yet, I can’t find it in me to stop. I barely eat anymore, only when I’m reminded. I’m just not hungry. I cry so easily now, and at the littlest thing too, like a sad book.
And worst of all, and I hate that I think this, but ever since fourth grade, my thoughts of suicide have never left my head. I think that if I was actually brave enough to do it, i’d already of been dead for a while.
My parents have me on medicine, but it just doesn’t seem to work. I see a counselor twice a week, but I still hate myself.
I have such a low self esteem, and I have no idea why, everybody tells me that I’m beautiful, that I’m skinny, that they would love to have my body. But I hate it. I have to wear make-up to hide my face, and I hate that I rely on it; I hate that I wear so much. I hate that some days, I can’t even leave the house because I don’t think I look good enough. I hate that I wear baggy clothes to hide my body; I hate that I’ve tried to starve myself to lose weight, that I’ve tried to make myself throw up.
I know I need help, but nothing at all seems to work. I feel like no one cares, but my friends and family always tell me they do. I feel like no one loves me, but my friends and family always tell me they do. I just don’t feel complete anymore, I just want it to end. I can’t take this suffering any more. I really hope that someday, I can feel brave enough to end my life.
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I have to agree I don’t fit in with my group of friends then they all turned on me like I was the next new victim of a murder crime so I started to cut they noticed it trying to apologise I told them where to sick it because they are way to bitchy for me to pag any attention also I stave myself thinking I’m fat when my friends ( the ones who haven’t been Nasty or two faced ) say I’m too skinny I’m 16 and weigh under 7 stone I look in the mirror and cannot stand what I see
@death101 dnt you hatee it ? i hatee the feeling of having to be perfect, when i knoo i never can, but it doesn’t stop me from trying. if you dnt mind me asking, how have you lost weight ? no matter wht i do, it doesn’t work !
Yes I do hate it Im not perfect andbi don’t want to be , I don’t eat much I have one bit of bread often I can’t even have it and I drink loads of coffee I’ve been forced to see a doctor I lost 1stone In a month and I have to fill out a book of what I eat drink everyday so he can tell me how to gain weight I did find it hard to lose weight at first bit then I lost loads
@death101 thanks so much ! i used to not eat at all, but gave up on tht mutiple times, so nothing happened, hopefully it will work ! tht sucks tht you have to fill out a book, it probably gets annoying, but are you trying to gain weight, or do you not want to ?
Ur friends and family try their hardest to help and love you… #but the problem is that none of them fully understand what ur going through and cannot fully help. Councilors and medicine treat the symptoms not the problem. Thats y such a site as this is so benifical, cause we know more of what u going through. Nd i love how @istillneedhelp xoned in on trying to loose weight
@Procel wht can i say, i just want to feel pretty
I don’t want to I look in the mirror and I see a freak where as someone else sees me as a teenager who’s too skinny and it’s affecting my mum in ways that are making me worry shes thinks there’s something wrong with me as ive been like this for years Shes not well herself
@death101 I’m truly sorry, i hopee everything gets better for you guys !
@Istillneedhelp beauty is in the eye of the beholder for someone u could be the most beautifull person in the world… Sher we dont even know what u look like but i bet you are beautifull… and isint it true to say that beautiy is on the inside?
Thanks I hope things get better for you
IStillNeedHelp … have you asked you parents about alternative therapies…. the hospitals are not the best places for everyone.
Yoga, acupuncture/acupressure, kundalini, meditation, herbal remedies(may not be strong enough).
Also sounds like body dysmorphic disorder and/or anorexia may be a part of your situations.
I know. I have the former. I hate how I look unless I am in excellent condition.. ripped and toned. And even then I feel like I need more vascularity and definition.
I used to be fanatical about my diet and exercise to stay that way but my years long apathy had me letting myself go. Which adds to the disgust I feel when I look in the mirror.
I really do hope you discover your own beauty and that the people who support you can actually understand more so they can help you heal.