You’ve won, you’ve gained insight and perspective from your experience. That’s where the treasure is…focus on that. Everything at face value is just that…all experience teaches us something. Getting emotional and taking things personally keeps you from valuing the benefit of what you’re experiencing. It’s all good. It’ all in how you choose to look at it…do you want to feel good about it or do you want to feel crappy…it’s up to you.
I know how you feel. I sense that I understand your problem. I lost the most important person in my life due to adultery and straight up lies. It ruined me now ten years later i still hold the pain from it. Ive never been the same Im very guarded and sheltered with no self esteem. Totally ruined im to the brink of insanity. Departing has to be better than this.
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Are you okay? Care to talk about what happened?
You’ve won, you’ve gained insight and perspective from your experience. That’s where the treasure is…focus on that. Everything at face value is just that…all experience teaches us something. Getting emotional and taking things personally keeps you from valuing the benefit of what you’re experiencing. It’s all good. It’ all in how you choose to look at it…do you want to feel good about it or do you want to feel crappy…it’s up to you.
I know how you feel. I sense that I understand your problem. I lost the most important person in my life due to adultery and straight up lies. It ruined me now ten years later i still hold the pain from it. Ive never been the same Im very guarded and sheltered with no self esteem. Totally ruined im to the brink of insanity. Departing has to be better than this.
exactly how i feel..
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