– Tiny penis
– Virgin
– Morbidly obese
– Unemployed
– Broke
– Partially educated (dropped out of college twice)
– Live with my parents
– Depressed
– No friends
– Soon in my 30’s
…
Yep, that’s me. So… should I kill myself or what? I probably should but I wanted some external point of views.
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Mmm nope.
Ability to feel and be loved =/= penis length, weight, education, or money.
Put yourself out there 🙂 try something new.
You’re the same as me except for three things: I’m neither a virgin, nor morbidly obese, nor broke. The fact your sexual stuff is at the top of your list makes me think you should address that first. The small penis part doesn’t actually matter (I’ve only got a small one too) and the virginity problem can be solved via a prostitute (which is precisely what I did). A nice, experienced “escort” could visit you at home and have a session with you, where you could take comfort from the knowledge that she’s “seen it all before”. I worry, however, that because of being broke, this might be hard for you to arrange.
In a way, by overeating to the point of morbid obesity, you’re already in the process of suiciding. Would it not be possible for you to have some dramatic fat-removing surgery? If you followed this by eating and exercising properly, you could sort out your obesity problem.
As for the other problems, if you find a solution, let me know.
Thanks for your input guys.
I ruled out the “escort” option a long time ago… I know she would just laugh at me. I mean c’mon, you know that when even hookers laugh at you, it’s pretty much over.
And it’s not just being a virgin that bugs me, it’s knowing I will never have a satisfying sexlife. Never. You just can’t have fun in bed with a woman when you have a small dick. It’s just impossible. Just pathetic.
This small penis thing was just the catalyst to all my other issues (especially the overeating one).
I just realized that a life without sex and affection is just not worth living for. It’s pretty bland. I’m not enjoying my life. I’m not having fun and I want out. I don’t belong here.
just a suggestion have you ever thought about picking up an instrument?
What??
Well… I tried guitar when I was like 10 years old but it didn’t go very well. Indeed, my teacher kindly advised me to quit after a few lessons.
I’m not good at anything.
you didn’t have a good teacher… i used to kinda play haven’t 4 awhile(didn’t think i was good at all either) and i know i don’t know you but i think that could be somthin that helps you out
It’s nice of you Heartless25 but I already tried many hobbies and collections. It just doesn’t work. Sure my mind escapes for a while but all the shit eventually comes back to me.
I agree with you Heartless25 an instrument is good. NO ONE is useless; there’s always something that you are good at. What hobbies have you exactly tried?
I’d listen to bea. She’s a woman, if she says you shouldn’t kill yourself over penis size, don’t do it.
I think loosing your virginity to a prostitute is a daft idea. Sex creates a bond between people, why bond with someone who’s only in it for the money?
Sure your life sucks right now, but you can try and change stuff.
I wouldn’t worry about age. Age is overrated. I’ve met suicidal kids and beaming, happy spinsters, so life needn’t always get worse with age.
You say you’re good at nothing. Instead of thinking that way, try to think about what activities you get absorbed in. I don’t believe in choosing a career path, it chooses you.
Good luck.
You sound like a gentle person.
By the way, I’m sure you can enjoy sex even if your dick is small. I’m below average myself, but I still love sex.
All those reasons are the motivation for growth….it’s all your perception and perspective.
Change it, …own it, accept it, be real with it, then you can change in a direction that you want to go. Those reasons are not an excuse to check out…they’re the reasons to take charge. You can only gain from the experience. You can’t get life wrong, you only ‘think’ you can. Your mere choice to live, is actually the way….what you perceive as death does not exist, so it won’t work. The universe supports life only, whether in body or not in a physical body. Your whole list is the impetus for you to unconditionally love and accept you. If you weren’t taught or had that reflected back to you growing up…no better time than the present to start on that path. Good luck!
Ok, activate the motivational music. I’m going to try to say something inspiring here. This is not something I normally do, and it is not something I am good at, but that is exactly what my message is.
You say you are not good at anything, but you mentioned that you are morbidly obese.This is not something I should recommend to people who are at risk of dying so you might have to lose some weight first. Have you considered speed eating? Yeah, that is a crazy idea and a stab in the dark at my part. I have no idea if you have the ability to eat quickly, but it may just be a way for you to get recognition for being good at something.
I think you would say you have hit the bottom. There is only one way to go from there, up. Try something new, try everything new. Try to lose some weight. Become interested in something, anything. There is a random quote I… (wait a second, what is this sad song doing in my motivational play list. Give me a second to change that… Ok, that’s better) …collected “The more you learn about something, the more likely you are to become interested in it” – Author unknown to me, and that is paraphrased.
Just another crazy idea. You are good at complaining about life, so maybe we can turn that around. Many comedians make money by telling jokes about the ironic side of life.
No matter what you do, you have to do something. We can only give you ideas, it is up to you to execute them. I wish you the best of luck.
Not for me or anyone else to tell you whether to take your own life or not.
That is totally up to you.
I see that others have made suggestions that you should try different things. But you seem to be dead set on just leaving.
All I can say that has not been said that death is final.
If you are truly finished and you have no hope left of anything changing, then may peace speed you on your way.
Otherwise, find something you enjoy if just even a small thing and expand upon it.
well if i can put my 2 cents in here…i was a 40 yr old virgin and in somerepsects am now a 41 yr old virgin still…let me explain. i was a forty yr old virgin having never even been on a date.Then i met someone here on SP and i fell in love with her and her for me. i finally got the courage ti ask to see her and she said yes. I finally had the opportunity to make love..or at least try to..however i guess i wasn’t UP to the task after only a few minutes i lost my ability so to speak and was unable to finish what i s\tarted…she says that since i had in fact managed penitration that a was no longer a virgin..thu i still feel like one since i couldn’t acheive orgasm…but that doesn’t matter …the real point is that i discovered that sex is not the answer…it is meaningless comprared to the love the two of us feel for eachotherand my sexual inadiquises not mean a thing to her she loves me just the same and i love her all the more for it.So stop worrying bout the sex and try to simply love…thats just my thoughts……
I was a virgin until like a month ago. Let me tell you, sex isn’t as awesome as the media says it is. Don’t get me wrong its fun, but not worth killing yourself over.
I feel like you in a lot of ways. I think my penis is a decent size and I’m not a virgin. But I do have a hit or miss(mostly miss) sex life though. And it depresses me a lot. I am incredibly obese as well. I’m not a chick but I learned that that if you are good @ cunnilingus you make up for a lot of ills sexually. So when you do get that girl eat that cooch… I wouldn’t suggest a prostitute I’ve never been with one but seems too expensive for something you can get done with an internet connection and a vigorous right hand. The emotional connection with sex has a lot to do with it’s enjoyment. Fucking a loose stranger isn’t a great way to lose your virginity.
Ok well I’ve heard enough now. Thank you all for your comments but I’m still gonna do it. Probably in January. Yeah I’m gonna give my family a break for the Holidays. Who knows maybe something will spark my interest by then but I doubt it.
Just another shot in the dark, but here are some things listed to try on WebMD for depression:
Take a class or go to a free lecture at the public library or local hospital.
Take a vacation. Sometimes just getting away for the afternoon will brighten your mood.
Go to the movies or rent a funny movie.
If nothing feels fun, try doing something that you used to enjoy.
I have a fairly big penis and use it very well (So I’m told) I have no trouble getting women, I’m not broke but not rich, if you’re sex life is top of your problems, you have it easy……………………..I know it doesn’t seem like it but you really do, I had to bury my baby son, carry a coffin that I could carry on my own with one arm……………….. My email is gareth.davies.82@live.com if you want to talk, I know your problems seem more than you can cope with but there are a lot of people worse off, My date is set for 7th of Jan, it’s my 30th birthday, What a present lol You say you have no friends, where do you live? if it’s close, I’ll go out for a beer with you 🙂 (I’m in wales, UK and have a car so can drive to you)
P.s I live with my parents too because my wife threw me out because she said I killed our son because I worked too much and she had to do too much in the house, I have now quit my job and sank into a deep depression. But, I’d be happy to go out for a beer with you if it’s possible, even if we go for a coffee and have a chat, I don’t give a shit what you look like, it’s the person inside that counts!