I cant take this…im head over heels in love with a girl i cant stand. Somedays, we’re as happy as can be, other days, she threatens to leave me and insults me whenever she’s mad. She said we needed a break 4 days ago, now today shes saying she doesnt wanna be with me anymore. I cant loose her, ive put my heart and soul into trying to be everything she needs. A hero, protector, a knight in shining armor. And i refuse to go on in life without her…
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I can relate to this one because my fiance felt the same way you did and your girl is just like me except I never told him I was leaving for good! But anyways…. Ronnie was madly inlove with me and was always scared I was going to leave so he started thinking alot of crazy things had mood swings one minute we would be happy next min we were fighting it was alot on both of us If your girl asked for a break that doesnt mean she dont love you anymore! It just means she needs time alone! Ronnie took his life on Jan 1st because he felt I no longer loved him anymore when I still do love him! Alot of people will hurt and miss you if you do anything and always remember people do love you and it no point to be selfish! You might think that that girl is your world life soul ect but shes not all of those things are your own hope this helped some
I’m sorry, but you have to give the lady what she wants. Love is not about ownership – it’s about doing what’s best for the other person.
I went through something similar with one of my ex’s. He did everything for me, but I felt suffocated and needed space, even though I truely loved him. It was very hard to break up with him because he didn’t want to give up, but I knew that if I didn’t, things would only get worse. When I finally broke with him, he asked me ‘What do I have to do to keep you?’ I told him ‘You have to let me go’. Well, he did, and now I feel better, and he could have me if he wanted but I think he’s moved on. But honestly… if she’s saying she needs space, you need to give it to her, otherwise her love will turn to resentment, and you will go from being a knight in shining armour to a prison guard with a tarnished ball and chain.