i MISS him…..

No you don’t need him. You need self-reliance. You need to be confident. You must first find that you do not need him, but that you want him. You may think you need someone but in truth you need yourself first and all others are those you want in your life.

Then you will never get any further than you are now…

To move on in life whether that be moving on from him or being with him again things have to change. If not then you will continue your current cycle. Even if you get back with him again what happens if things go wrong? Will you be stuck back were you were when you needed him and were depressed because you didn’t have what you “needed” or will you be okay and move on because you know you have yourself and that there’s always another.

It’s thinking in that manner that will also keep you stuck in place. It’s true there is no one like him because we are not the same, everyone is different. there won’t be another one like him BUT and I stress that highly! BUT there can be someone else. there could be someone better or even someone different who is just as good.