Iknow that this might sound cheesy, but it can hurt more th an you think…teenage heartbreaK.
I know the topic is weird to think that somebody would attempt suicide over it, but it happens to me a lot.
The first time my heart broke was when I asked out a guy who me and my friend I guess really liked but yet she still encouraged me to ask him out. So after school I walked up to him and asked him out he said no. Now you’re probably thinking m well can’t you find somebody else the answer is no. I can’t just get over somebody I was seriousy in love with. That night I was on my bedroom floor crying my eyes out.
With the questions rattling around in my headm why did I ever like him he probably thinks I’m a weirdo, ugly,stupid, and mostly just a waste of time. Somehow I. Got over him but the feelings still occur that the feelings back. I ended up liking somebody different but the only probelm is that he’s with someone else at the moment. Every now and then I start to feel like he’s just like my ffirst love so I feel that I’m going to get hurt again.
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hey, i wish i could tell you that you will get over it. But im in love with a senior.. crazy it sucks because he kicked me to the curve after all this friends made fun of him. i like to think that he loved me to..or still has feelings for me beecause i mean come on you always have feelings for the person who toke you v card. and i toke his.. so i mean i hope everything goes bettter keep looking up…
—– schneiderang
Thanks this really helped!
I’m a freshman in love with a junior. We dated for six and a half weeks and then he dumped me and moved on. He was my first love, I have no doubts about it but he doesn’t feel the same and it sucks. It’s been five months and still he’s constantly on my mind. He’s on his third girlfriend right now. I’m still single. I have my eye on one of my best friends. He’s always been there for me, but he’s my exbestfriends exboyfriend and being with him would just bring a world of drama. He claims he wants to be with me too, but in public, I don’t exist.
I’m not going to say love sucks, because it doesn’t. It’s incredible. But at the same time, it’s one of the most depressing things in the world.
Young obsessive love, this is why I never dabbled in you in the first place. Ignorance is bliss. Love is like a drug, once you have it, you never want to go back to a loveless life and yet you do (that’s not the kind of life I want to live). Anyway be careful, you need to ask yourself if your current crush (any crush for that matter) is worth it. Ask yourself if he is worth your time and if he is, work hard and make him happy. If you get rejected, keep in mind that failures are temporary situations that teach us necessary lessons (usually learned at the worst times). So yes you will fail sometimes, but the faster you accept this, the faster you can get on with something brilliant. Either you succeed or you learn a vital lesson. Win – Win. But don’t forget, the good are never easy, and the easy are never good.