i guess ive gotten so good at ling about being ok bc not even my best friend can tell that my “Im fine” or “Im ok nothings wrong” or the complete opposite i feel more alone then ever before ….
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Rather than being disappointed with your friends for not being able to tell that you’re lying, why not tell them truth? It’s like being upset with your friends for trusting you. You tell them you’re okay and they believe you. That’s not a crime. Friends are supposed to be there for support, but if you want the support, you have to tell them the truth about how you’re feeling. I think the bigger wrong is that you’re lying to them, not that they believe you.
im not disappointed im used to it i dont tell her becouse she has other things to worry about then me im not gonna burden her with me when she has thins that are worth worring about
Well you gotta be honest with your friends…they’d want to know you’re sad!
Lies, lies, lies
It’s not a lie and you are not being dishonest. People just aren’t very perceptive.
You have to ask yourself what you really want here. Do you really want people to know there’s a problem and what if they don’t react in the way you might expect.
Of course everyone wants someone to talk to and understand but it doesnt always work out that way. Even if they did, what difference does it make. Especially if in general they are not very constructive.
I agree completely! My phone has been silent for days and even weeks on end. Because I chose to leave them out of the loop. You cant be upset at friends for asking whats wrong if they have no idea there is a problem. Like I used to say to my crew… I cant read your mind by lookin at your ass when your walking away!
That’s kinda funny 😉
giggle dawg
@ Admiral of The Fleet thats just it i lie cuz i dnt know what to expect from anyone anymore they all tell me lies so y cant i tell them lies they never understand anyways and when they saw the cuts all they did was yell judg nd critisiz me