Okay,here goes.
My names murron mackay,incase you hadn’t guessed by my username, and today I was searching on the internet about getting help on being suicidal, and I stumbled on this website. I had a look through and thought I would add my story. It’s nothing huge, infact compared to most of the stories on here, it’s like nothing. But anyway, in a nutshell, here is my story.
Don’t get me wrong, I have a family, a roof over my head and even a boyfriend, and i know what you’s are all thinking, ‘Selfish *****’ etc etc..But before you judge, please read this blog and hear me out. This time last year my life was just about perfect, I had great friends, was always out partying, wasn’t fighting with my parents all the time, always happy, getting good grades, all that but now? It’s the opposite. I feel so alone all the time. And my boyfriend? Well he’s the most supportive person you will ever meet, he’s perfect. The only real reason i’m still here today. Without him,i would have been long gone. Nine times out of ten he’s always there, But it’s the odd occassion i need him more than ever, and well he isn’t there. I always feel like i’m annoying him when I try to talk to him about this kind of stuff, And quite frankly it hurts, Because he’s all I have. But he likes going to another town to hang with all his other pals. So again, I’m alone. But he understands me, he makes me feel beautiful when I know I look rediculous. He’s so caring and not like any other boy. He’s different, he’s mine. He is the only one who really knows how I feel, how all this has affected me. He encourages me to stop the overdosing, the cutting, the self harm, but he doesn’t push me, he helps me. And he’s the reason I’m alive.
Bet your still thinking ‘Selfish,why give up all life?’ etc.. That brings me on to my next part. It’s all changed.. Now all i do is constantly fight with my parents,all they ever do is put me down, make me feel like shit. I can’t talk to them about anything, It’s horrible, I always hear about people being so close to their family, then. Theres me.
My friends? Well if i’m really honest, I don’t really have any. Suddenly I always got left out, never invited out anywhere. On facebook and bbm I would see them all in each others name, realising that yet again, I’ve been ignored. It’s like a punch in the gut, and it fucking hurts.
Then comes school. During school, it’s fine? I’m quite happy in school because I feel, wanted. But then, It’s the rumors. They’re the worst thing of all. The spreading, the talking, the looking, the pointing, the laughing. You get what I mean right? We all go through it at one point. It’s hell, trust me. When you walk into a room and can feel all eyes burning into you, then they’ll turn away, and the giggling, the talking ,the looking back and away again quickly.. Teachers don’t help, infact telling a teacher makes things 10 times worse, that makes you ‘a grass’.
Anyway, thats me done ranting, but really, all that adds up. I constantly have a fake smile on my face, telling people I’m okay when i’m clearly not. Covering up the scars with make up or fake tan. I need help, I’m sure of it. I cut, alot. My arms look like a washed out tiger. I’ve overdosed, many times. But i’ve calm down, i got anti depressaints etc. But I don’t know how to tell my mum how I really feel, should I show her this?
If you’ve read this far, then i thank you! Doubt anyone will though. But THANK YOU if you did! This story is fucked up, stupid and pointless like me :)…but I needed to let it all out.
God bless xoxo
6 comments
No, no, never apologize for telling your story, everyone has one. Do you want to get better? There are lots of people that want to help, you should let them instead of covering up everything. Enjoy life! Death is PERMANENT. If you die you will NEVER COME BACK. It’s a very hefty decision. If you think your mum can handle it then definitely tell her! She’s there because she loves you and wants the best for you. Don’t plunge right into everything, you should start off small. “Mum… I have a problem..” then continue to ease your way into your opinion and ideas. I’m sure she’ll understand 🙂 Good luck!
Thank you so much! I suppose I’ll try and tell her,all we do is argue ad at the moment, we aren’t talkig haha! But thank you for your kinda response! X x x
Youu don’t need to apologise for posting on this, sure that’s what this site is for 🙂
If youu need to talk to someone I’m here, I think youu mentioned that you have bbm I do too! 290B9951
I know what its like to have parents that expect too much off youu.
Aw thanks! Yep I do, i’ll add you the now! x x
Kk 🙂
You may suggest to your family…the only reasons arguments happen is because both parties want to be right….but if one part or both parties want and choose peace..then the chance of that occurring is far greater, and you deserve it.
Anything negative you or I have to say about anything, any situation, or anyone is all about US…period. So if your folks are putting the hurt on you and being negative…it’s all about them! Know that, so you do not give it your attention or dignify it or allow it to put you down…when you know this, it’ll bounce off you cause they are projecting on to you. People who love you, love you unconditionally, so know that too and know that you deserve that. I encourage you to start being gentle with yourself, cause your rant is just you picking up where your folks left off, talking about how pointless or worthless you are…hello?! If someone talked to me that way I’d punch them out, so why talk to yourself that way….
Remember negative feedback does not produce positive thoughts or feelings for yourself and you are not a reflection of your experience…there’s the splendid YOU and the not so great experience you’re having…but make the distinction so you can learn the positive lessons from your experiences and interactions with the world.
Cheers!