Seriously?
That’s what it comes down to?
For those of you who don’t know SP chat used to be a great place to vent, find friends, even be yourself. But the tides have changed. An influx of immature Moderators and Admins has made it a living hell. No one can get along when there is always a side to be chosen. The chat was closed TWICE last night. Whatever happened to talking it out?
When the chat closes you aren’t just making the people fighting angry you make EVERYBODY angry. Â Oancu needs to learn to stop complaining all the time, and let someone else speak. Custard. STOP DEFENDING HER. That’s how the messes start. Â Admins and Mods shouldn’t take sides, they are there to sort out problems not get in the middle.
orangish closed the chat 6:40 PM
Lauren (Khajiit) left the chat 6:40 PM
kalisue: Teh room is closed 6:41 PM
orangish: bleeding: that emotional state is random, chaotic, anxious, and depressed 6:41 PM
Custard.: good. 6:41 PM
Pepperpep4: This is bullcrap 6:41 PM
Pepperpep4: Lol 6:41 PM
orangish: the madness of my life is maddening — but madness tends to be maddening. 6:42 PM
Custard.: im tired of coming home from work to the room in Jerry Springer mode. 6:42 PM
orangish: so that makes sense. 6:42 PM
orangish: no shit 6:42 PM
kalisue: Haha Cus 6:42 PM
Pepperpep4: Lol cus 6:42 PM
Pepperpep4: It’s so true thoufh 6:42 PM
Custard.: thats what this is now. 6:42 PM
orangish opened the chat 6:43 PM
Do you see how stupid that looks?
How about this?
kalisue closed the chat 9:31 PM
Custard.: Shes not exploding tonight. she tried to help Kimmm. after kimmm PMSed on her 9:31 PM
kalisue: ENOUGH 9:31 PM
kalisue: Holy fucking shit 9:31 PM
Pepperpep4: Go kali 9:31 PM
kalisue: This really needs to fucking stop 9:31 PM
Pepperpep4: Agreed 9:31 PM
orangish left the chat 9:31 PM
Custard.: agreed 9:32 PM
dawg: i don’t care what you’ve been through – it does NOT justify your hurtful outbursts on others here 9:32 PM
orangish opened and joined the chat 9:32 PM
This is ridiculous. Talk it out to the PEOPLE. Not to yourselves.
I was told to kill myself last night. I tried. The cord snapped. So. I’m still here.
I feel like shit and trying to come back and tell you all about it? Oh that was fun. So I just want you all to know I am NOT coming back. Maybe you should learn some manners before you go telling people what they can do and, how they can do it.
– Kelly -DDD
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I have cancer. You told me TWICE that I need to stop talking about my cancer so much. Excuse me?
Custard defends me because he knows that the reason I’m alive is because I talk about my cancer.
Hello? 16, terminal cancer?
You would talk about it too. Grow up.
well said Kelly.
I’m trying to stay out of his whole chat debate but thi is now the third thread in as many days about how bad the chat is! Kelly, I’m sorry you were told to go kill yourself. That’s inexcusable on a suicide forum. Hope yr ok
yeah it is getting to be bullshit when a site designed to prevent suiide is antagonizing ppl. i makes them WANT to kill themselves. and i dont think SP would appreciate it if they were the cause of so many deaths. since ive been coming here, there has been fight after fight. and 4 people have attempted to kill themselves. if there is no escape from the norm there is no peace.
Talk it out? All you and everyone does is drag it along. It doesn’t stop and THAT is why the chat gets closed.
I am very sorry that you felt that way. You’re not alone on that one.
Sincerely,
Nobody915
I could make a post saying, ‘Kelly needs to stop complaining all the time,” but isn’t that the point of a place like this? To let people vent when they need to? I don’t understand why everyone has to get pissed because someone else is doing the exact same thing they want to do. It is so fucking confusing.
im going to say this once, because i feel its true, mods shouldnt be suicidal ppl seeking help here, and they should be experience with dealing with suicidal ppl. other then that its like handing a gun to a child and hoping for the best. if SP cant do there job and take charge, this site shouldnt exist at all.
Also: someone suggesting anyone else should kill themselves is obviously not going to fly. But people are people are people are people are people are people are also people. Some people need to quit with the highly personal line-crossing, which is why that sort of thing doesn’t fly.
I’d rather everyone feel better than how I’m feeling right now – I don’t want anyone feeling how I feel. Because I feel like fucking shit. I wish I could do something as constructive as what kimmm does, but I’m not that creative. I’m also growing very apathetic because of all the never-ending bickering.
I wish people would stop polluting this place with the chatroom-related crap
@truthbtold: isn’t it all the same crap?
from your POV it must be
I don’t see a difference. People are people. Chatroom people are still just as much people as SP people, and they actually exist in both places. It’s a weird concept, but once you strip all the meaningless clutter away, you’re left with human beings, and just that.
so … when there was no chat – and the same spats happened … how was that somehow – “not pollution”?
Anytime two or more people get together the possibility for disagreement and hurt feeling exists … that happened here as well as it does in chat – and the lack of respect is equally wrong in either place.
disgusted dawg
I will take credit for the Cobain comment. It was wrong, and I apologize for the implied meaning. I never actually meant for you to try and kill yourself, to try and pin that on me, I believe is unfair and attention seeking. I’m just a fucked up suicidal idiot anyway so what kind of weight does my comment even carry. I don’t know you, I don’t know what your going through, or what you’ve been through. I admit I over stepped my bounds in attempting to stick up for Oancu. I was offended that somehow we were comparing a break up to stage four cancer, when I spoke up and said something you immediately started talking shit to me and I over reacted. What can I say I’m a miserable person I have no excuse, it won’t happen again…..my apologies.
@truthbtold I second that sentiment
@shatteredglass – well put
And for the record, those where my first and last comments on the chat site, you can hardly hold anyone else on there accountable for my stupidity, I was immediately silenced and then booted, so you can’t hold anyone accountable for that comment accept me…….
jebediah, i think you deserve a lot of credit for having the courage and decency to offer an apology. all of us here have said or done things we regret in the heat of the moment. it’s part of being human. i hope your apology will be accepted, and everyone can move on.
i missed those days 🙁