I am devastated while i read this blog. I just lost my brother last week. He was only 39 a great guy and a musician. I am 34… He took his life and I cannot find the answer to all my question. He was depressed. I helped him to go to therapy and he even was on medication. My pain is extreme … My feelings are mixed up.
He did told me in July he had tried before we even laugh about it. I used to listen to him and give him advice as a friend. I never judge him. I always told him he was my hero as he lived his life the way he wanted.
I just cannot understand how lonely, hopeless he felt to do what he did. My family and i are devastated. We support him, we love him but he started to lose the ability to feel our love. Now while i read some of these people who wants to die.
I feel so sad please guys tell me what you need to see the light in this world. I know it ia not easy , i know some stuff sucks but I also know how beautiful is life.
Please tell me what you need, please tell me what you are feeling so I can try to understand. Why dont we create a group where we can overcome all the bad stuff to look for one more chance instead of saying good bye?
It is also sad all those people giving advice on how to do it.. In the mean time i still see them alive and I wonder if it is not only bad people giving advice to good people who needs positive support.
I will check my brothers computer… Hopefully I don’t find that he got the help from the internet or a group promoting suicide. Nobody have idea. Of the aftermath on the families.
I will pray for some of you to find the light in this world to lead you to a better life while in this earth until your real final moment arrive.
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This was a very nice post, and I really appreciated it. Because I actually felt like you cared.
I’m 16, and I have attempted suicide a couple of times. Yes I know I’m very young. But sometimes it seemed like the only way out. I always felt trapped, lonely, miserable.
I try helping others who are thinking of committing suicide, but then I feel like a hypocrite because I too have tried doing it.
Honestly it’s really hard convincing someone to not do something that they have so longed waited to do. But one way is showing that you care. I’m not sure how many people i’m speaking for when I say we never have anyone to talk to. No one ever seems to genuinely care. Especially being younger no one takes me seriously enough. So the only thing I can say is to be supportive and try giving positive advice … and I am very sorry for your loss.
Ho My God! You are only 16! The best times are just to come.. you have not even try University!
What can it we so hard for you to want to die? 🙁
If I could only we 16 again… 🙂 My 1st love.. my 1st broken heart… all those thing that make me the woman I am today!
The mom of 2 beautiful kids!
All those tears and pain I grow with made me a stronger person and I overcame the bad times to color my world the way I wanted.
It is true I had to move on and leave a lot of things behind.. cry some time and try to run some others. I was also depressed but I took my treatment and I was back to normal.
Now my brother just shaked my world upside down… how can I enjoy anything else from now on knowing he wont be here to see it.
Even my kids birthdays and all the thing we had planned.
Beauty!.. you name say it all. Please move on!
Please get out of these type of sites.
Create your won blog and promote the well being.. you are not an hypocrite.. you are stronger and a leader! because you are still HERE!
And you are a great way to promote the well being! It doesn’t matter how bad you feel you are here! listening and writing back.. so you care!
So please look at you.. the light is inside you! NO matter what is wrong around the world.. we might not be able to change it but we might be able to change just a little bit! 🙂
I just join this site tonight to look for answers but I don’t think this is going to help me much as while I read I feel nauseous when I read a post about people explain other how to succeed to die. I just cannot believe there is people out there trying to help others to die.
Thanks for listening.
I wish it were that easy … But thanks for the advice.
Well here’s some advice for you. Please make sure to listen to your children. Tell them you love them. Show them you care. Always be there for them. Never tell they’re not good enough.
If my parents would have listened to those things I wouldn’t be here right now but sadly we can’t change what has already happened …
I hope you find all of the answers you’re looking for, And I wish you and your family the best.