Well my name is tess and im 14, im here just saying my story, when i was young i was diganosed with Adhd (attention dificit. Hyoeractive disorder), Â my mum got divorsed with my dad and got with another man, he was wrong, i got bullied allot from him not just physically but mentally too, Â he would just fuck with my head, i got put through walls, knives held up to my throat and much more, i got bullied by an older man than me….. I fiannly got to the age where i could tell someone about it, i told my mum, she didnt belive me, still to this day she dont belive me, i am practically disowned by my own mother, i now live with ,y dad but still get bullied by my step dad, i have had suicidal thoughts alot tryed to commite 4 times, and cutting alot,, im nit here for hate i just want help xo
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Well I hope your step dad gets what he deserves. As far as the ADHD goes I feel ya I have it too.
can you report the stepdad to the authorities….tell someone who can lock his ass up.
But then i will be hurting my mum :/
Hi tessxo,
Why do u care if u hurt your mom. Clearly her priorities are wrong. At least attempt to speak to a school teacher. Most of them have seen it all and heard it all so you will get support. If they don’t listen then tell someone else. Keep talking until someone listens. Do you have any siblings? If you don’t then imagine your best closest most treasured friend going through what you are and ask yourself how would you feel hearing them tell you all that you are going through. Would you not wee for this friend, would you not want to tell the world to save her from this abuse, would you not want to scream
At every adult for not stopping her pain? Well you are as special as that friend and you need to stand up for who you are and protect yourself I’m the way you imagine protecting your friend. Many years from now you will weak the child you are today and wish that you spoke out when you were that child. I know its sound simple but speak out for the person you imagine yourself to be 20 years from now cos I know you don’t want to be a weak adult but strong adults emerge from even stronger children. Make your adult future self proud to say that as a child you stood up for yourself. You can stop him but power comes with a tiny act of courage to speak out.
If you were my child I would acid wash your step dads face. I am sorry you were sacked with an evil man and I wish I could mAke it all stop and let you be a beautiful happy child you were supposed to be. All the best keep us updated. Xo
im sorry but i think shell be much better without him and sure with time shell see clearly too and give you reason. i feel for you as i been there myself. does your dad know? please if you have a good relationship with him tell him, he can help you if he loves you.
i know it sounds selfish but its for her own good and she will recognise that one day, hope soon, please tessxo!
Have you told your dad that your stepdad is abusing you? I’m sure that your dad will be pissed off and do something to help you. Don’t give up tess. I know that you’ve had a rough childhood, but your life can improve if you take steps to improve it. Have you told any of your teachers about what has been happening?
My one thing to add is did it occur to you that your step-dad could be threatening your mom too and she said she didnt believe you because she’s afraid?
Also, none of it is your fault so try not to cut, it’s not worth it.
Thankyou everyone for your lovley supports iv been telling my counceller everything and its helping 🙂