Insecurity is a part of our lives. It’s what strikes the fear of rejection into us. Insecurity is something that drives us to perfect ourselves, so we can “fit in.†We’re scared of rejection and just want to be able to fit in. But… So many people, so many guys and girls alike are judged on their appearance, and personality. It hurts to get judged. Rejection hurts, being an outcast because you’re not as pretty as someone you know.. hurts. There is one thing you have to always remember though, people who see only the ugly in others, do so because they don’t want to see the ugly in themselves.
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Generally, people are predictable. It’s only natural to be drawn to someone you find attractive or a personality you find compelling. Only a hypocrite would say otherwise. It happens on here too. The key is being able to manipulate their predictability. Judging somebody is the same as forming an opinion; there can be nothing wrong with that even when there is little to support these assumptions. Everyone is entitled to their opinion just as you are entitled to judge them in the same way. It only matters when you care what people think. I don’t.
But just because you prefer someone’s personality or looks over another’s does not give you the right to voice your opinion if the plan is to hurt someone.
That’s how the world is. Wouldn’t you rather someone revealed their true feelings so that you know where you stand, can defend yourself even avoid them. Imagine if they said those things behind your back and you were completely oblivious. Find the good ones. They are out there. Allow people to be hurtful and you can readily discard them so they don’t drag you down with their narrow-minded mentality.
I’d prefer they keep it to themselves if theybarebputnto make my life hell.