I’m a liar because I wont tell you everything.

So what you’re saying is that you disagree with conclusions others have made about you, and find that they have arrived at their conclusions incorrectly, through invalid methods, based on unacceptable judgement criteria.

People are taught to expect too much. That’s why they judge you so harshly and unfairly. Only those who learn to form reasonable and realistic expectations, and select appropriate judgement criteria, have an opinion that should be considered “valid.”

As soon as one’s judgement indicates underdeveloped and poorly thought-out methodology, or reveals unacceptable judgement criteria, you should just ignore them and move on with your life, rather than being upset by what a bunch of morons think. If anything, be upset about how there are so many of those morons, and only because “the system” teaches people to be that way… and most of them have no desire to correct either themselves, or the system.

Figure out what you most value, and find others who agree. Their input would be useful, whereas the opinion of someone who thinks nothing of what you value, would be useless, if not confusing and possibly even detrimental to your well-being.