I met him last summer, we used to chat before but we were so distant. Last summer, we got to know each other very well.. I fell for him, I loved him and did everything I could to please him. We are together for a year now, two months ago, he told me he slept with two girls, this new was so hard on me, I almost killed myself. I had dreamt to grow old im his arms, we got each other out of depression, I’ve changed him and he did the same.. I don’t know what to do anymore, he is now telling me that he will be looking for girls, to sleep with, since we can’t have sex him and I.. I’m so lost, I cry myself to sleep everynight. I need your help.
As in staying with one person, monogamy. Ye both love each other don’t ye? Ye are there for each other emotionally? Physical relationship is irrelevant it can be got anywhere but the emotional is the important one, you nearly described my relationship except for the cheating btw.
It hurts.. We love each other, but we met only two times this year.. Everytime I talk to him about my fears he says that nobody could take my place and he says that he is just using those girls to satisfy his sexual desires while waiting for the time we’ll be livingg with each other.. I lie to myself every second and I’m tired and weak.
Well… Clearly the relationship isn’t making you happy. Hell its brought you here. That’s got to tell you something. You may love him and he may, in his way, love you too but when were you last happy with him? Correct me if im wrong but relationships are ment to make you happy and safe, not bring you to a suicide forum… I don’t doubt ye had good times but it seems to me they could be over…mabye its time to let him go, if its ment to be ye will meet again, if its not ment to be all your going to do is end up more hurt than you are now…
I can remember the last time I was happy with him was yesterday, we were having a great time until I logged in to his facebook account and saw things that I wasnt supposed to see, but he said it was only for fun but when I act this bad he will do it for real. You don’t understand, I would die without him, he brought me back to life, I saved him from depression, and he did too.. I know he needs me, he is psychologically ill, and I am too but..
Don’t take that, you don’t deserve it. There’s no excuse for cheating, long distance or whatever it is that you can’t see each other is no excuse at all. It’s not the end of the world there’s plenty of other guys in the world that will treat you so much better.
This is probably not the best advice but.. If i really felt like I was so in love with someone that i could not live without them but they kept cheating on me over and over knowingly hurting me again and again..Well I would keep them BUT I would start secretly talking to other guys untill i found another who I was attracted to.
I’m sorry, but I don’t want anyone else. He is the one I share my dreams with, to make myself feel better I keep o saying that everything will be fine, just as he says.. Is there any other option other than leaving him?
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What u need?
I desperaty need to talk to somebody.
So talk……………
Take ur time mate, we here to listen.
I met him last summer, we used to chat before but we were so distant. Last summer, we got to know each other very well.. I fell for him, I loved him and did everything I could to please him. We are together for a year now, two months ago, he told me he slept with two girls, this new was so hard on me, I almost killed myself. I had dreamt to grow old im his arms, we got each other out of depression, I’ve changed him and he did the same.. I don’t know what to do anymore, he is now telling me that he will be looking for girls, to sleep with, since we can’t have sex him and I.. I’m so lost, I cry myself to sleep everynight. I need your help.
Why do you need an exclusive relationship?
What do you mean by exclusive? Explain your point please.
As in staying with one person, monogamy. Ye both love each other don’t ye? Ye are there for each other emotionally? Physical relationship is irrelevant it can be got anywhere but the emotional is the important one, you nearly described my relationship except for the cheating btw.
It hurts.. We love each other, but we met only two times this year.. Everytime I talk to him about my fears he says that nobody could take my place and he says that he is just using those girls to satisfy his sexual desires while waiting for the time we’ll be livingg with each other.. I lie to myself every second and I’m tired and weak.
Well… Clearly the relationship isn’t making you happy. Hell its brought you here. That’s got to tell you something. You may love him and he may, in his way, love you too but when were you last happy with him? Correct me if im wrong but relationships are ment to make you happy and safe, not bring you to a suicide forum… I don’t doubt ye had good times but it seems to me they could be over…mabye its time to let him go, if its ment to be ye will meet again, if its not ment to be all your going to do is end up more hurt than you are now…
I can remember the last time I was happy with him was yesterday, we were having a great time until I logged in to his facebook account and saw things that I wasnt supposed to see, but he said it was only for fun but when I act this bad he will do it for real. You don’t understand, I would die without him, he brought me back to life, I saved him from depression, and he did too.. I know he needs me, he is psychologically ill, and I am too but..
Don’t take that, you don’t deserve it. There’s no excuse for cheating, long distance or whatever it is that you can’t see each other is no excuse at all. It’s not the end of the world there’s plenty of other guys in the world that will treat you so much better.
This is probably not the best advice but.. If i really felt like I was so in love with someone that i could not live without them but they kept cheating on me over and over knowingly hurting me again and again..Well I would keep them BUT I would start secretly talking to other guys untill i found another who I was attracted to.
I’m sorry, but I don’t want anyone else. He is the one I share my dreams with, to make myself feel better I keep o saying that everything will be fine, just as he says.. Is there any other option other than leaving him?