Someone help me understand why I continue to do everything in my power to make a man happy? Four years, and a child later and I’m still a wreck. The good days make me feel powerful, confident, loved. But those good days only come a few times a month. All I ask is for respect, loyalty, attention. I give you all you need, plus some. I don’t wanna feel terrible every day. But I don’t know life without you. What am I supposed to do with myself? I love you so much, but I want to love myself more.
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It’s important to love your self…”You can’t truely love someone unless you love your self” (Most prob why I can’t find love…).
Take care of your self first…then you will be able to take care of those around you. It’s not selfish (although it sounds like it). The concept is, if you are not at your best, you can’t give your best…to your child…to your husband… This might also be why your good days only come once in a while. Most of the time you are running your self ragged trying to please everyone else. I know it’s hard not to do that…I my self is guilty of that… For me, though, it’s more because I’m an empath rather than wanting to please everyone. I never stop feeling others emotions and needs and I keep putting that above my own…that’s just how I am. A sensitive sap…
Sounds like you are in a dead relationship.
Maybe a good talk with him will help fix things.
If you have a child together, work on it for him/her.
Prayer also helps 🙂
Going thru this as we speak. Bothe phantomshadow and wifeisgone are right. You have to help yourself. And you need to communicate with your husband. It might help. Hasnt yet for me too much but im still trying. Thats all we can do sometimes is keep trying.