I lost my father to suicide and harbor no harsh feelings toward him for what he did. He was in pain, depressed, unable to break away from alcohol and drug addiction and the worst part to him was the IRS said he owed $50,000 in back taxes and he had no idea why. Turns out after his death the IRS informed us he really didn’t owe anything, in fact, they owed him! A sickening feeling that was. The IRS was the first mention in his suicide note. They killed my father just as much as he killed himself…but I digress…Now I stand in his place, popping pills and longing for the moment when I get up the nerve to put that 9mm bullet through my own skull but the thought of the sole person in my life, my loving boyfriend of 10 years, having to pick up the pieces of skull fragments and brain matter stops me “dead” in my tracks. But deep down, do I really want to die? For all of you out there on the verge of suicide, do you really want to end life once and for all or do you just wish life was different? I am older than most of you, a former model, popular cheerleader in high school and even a degree in mortuary science…yet my unhappiness runs deep, a feeling of darkness I cannot shake. Please know you aren’t alone. There are others out there who feel your pain and can reach out to hold your hand no matter how far away in physical miles you may be. I keep holding on, another day, another day, living like a rat in a cage but I’m still here. What keeps you here? What keeps you from taking that final step? I want to know…with love <3
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what made you pursue a degree in mortuary science? Are you using it?
The thing holding me back is the finality of it. Plus my current stage of depression has me so indecisive, which keeps impulsive acts at a minimum.
Kinkajous keep me here. And cats.
What I mean to say is that there is still a lot of stuff in the world that I’d like to see, yet. Might be a pipe-dream to visit the cloud forests in South America (for example), and it might not be – who can say what the future holds unless you’re working towards it?
Plus, who would take care of my cats? Seriously. I wouldn’t trust anyone in my life right now to even take care of washing the dishes, much less cleaning a litterbox or giving the critters the attention they need. It’s like they always say… if you want something done right….
Cats should eliminate outside, not in a literbox. Those are some of the most disgusting things ever invented.
I could give a list of reasons why i’d prefer to live…
But ultimately, the only reason i’m still here is because i don’t have access to my preferred methods, and i haven’t acted on the overwhelming urges to use a more primitive one. Aside from that, my dog and my mom. Not because what i feel, but because they would. But now i’m pretty sure, if i had it now, i’d do it now, regardless.
As for your title question…
Since when does it matter what i want? What does it matter? What difference does it make? My life will never be anything to want, and i have to die someday, regardless. Since it’s never going to be worth the struggle, i might as well skip all the extra bad parts that don’t bring any good parts along with them.
I can think of a few things more disgusting, but if you live on a busy street, letting them outside the house might be unwise. Cats are not very bright when it comes to crossing the road.
Don’t you love it when the OP asks a question, then disappears?
meh, i’m used to it.
Very nice, very sweet post. Thanks for sharing.
Your life sounds graphic enough to be a fucked up suspense movie – I make films. Maybe we could develop the concept together.
To your question, anti-depressants seem to be helping; and smoking s lot of weed, on a regular basis, helps out soooooo much. Also, I have started playing poker at a serious level – it gives me something fun to do, study, and etc.
Life is still fucked and I’m working out what to do with the lot of it, but at least it’s getting better now.
She’s dead
“She’s dead”
Who is that directed towards and who is she?
Communicating on here is difficult enough, let’s keep it open and clear SP