For as long as I remember, I never loved anyone. Like I’ve been attracted to guys, but I never felt anything. Like if they would dump me the next day, I wouldn’t even care. And it’s’the same for my family and friends. Everyone but my sister. What is wrong with me? How would you best describe love?
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Love varies from person to person, and some won’t ever experience it, others might experience it once, others might experience it a gazillion times in the same afternoon… you get the drill. Also if you ask the same person at different ages to describe love the answers might be completely different, so only you can find your definition of it… that you love your sister is a good start tho 🙂
To me, it’s a sense of “home”. Like a sense of complicity and belonging at levels you don’t find with other people. That doesn’t mean that it’s perfect or that it doesn’t need work, but it just feels right regardless of the problems that might arise, and itself gives you strength to fight those problems when they appear. But as i said, only you can define love for yourself.
If you don’t love then why would you be concerned that you don’t feel it for anyone?
Thank you, M 🙂 great way of describing it !!
And dyingsoul, I want to feel love for someone because I crave affection and care, but I’ve never been close enough to someone that they could give me that 🙁