I’m sorry I can’t save you. I’m sorry I’m not smart enough. Not great enough. Not rich enough.
I’m sorry for being stupid enough to keep fighting a dying battle.
But you are my reason, and I’m sorry I keep holding on to that reason. I’m sorry I cannot forget you.
I’m sorry I couldnt save you.
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Thanks for expressing your limiting beliefs. I’m not being sarcastic or dismissive. Some of these are core.
I hope you can get in touch with you being more than enough for you and others. I also hope this for myself.
Best not to forget those whom we hold dear and live on in their memory. You couldn’t save them but you can save yourself – if not for you personally, then perhaps for them instead.
@Hogpotter-
Some one once told me that apologies promote guilt.. As if that’s all saying sorry means. And maybe it’s true some of the time.
But I can’t believe in that..
Sometimes we feel so strongly for another, that we don’t want our bond to break. We start apologizing for things we haven’t done, and outcomes we have no control over. Sometimes we feel so strongly in the moment, we don’t want it to end, ever. And when it does we question ourselves if it was in actuality…our own fault.
We try so hard to make the apologies mean something, and speak from the heart.. And we try so hard to apologize with out mirroring our sorries to reflect that which we feel others should be sorry for.. But it’s hard, I know. When they put us in this position..
Sometimes the only perceivable way out is through the desperation of a sincere heart felt apology.
I hope you are gonna be ok Hogpotter. It’s good to know you are still around, still fighting.
Hold your head up in these times!
Have faith in yourself
People are taught to expect too much. When you can’t live up to impossible expectations, they blame you, even though it’s really their own inability to form appropriate expectations, which has caused their displeasure. But try getting them to acknowledge that…
I don’t wish to be cruel, I understand how pain can distort what we hope to say.
When I read you words I felt you were being cruel, passive aggressive. Placing so much of the responsibility or for feeling and experience on to this other.
I definitely know the feeling it sucks,hope you can make it through.
Hello
not important you are not the best or powerful or wise enough because nobody is complete It is important that you have a merciful heart and you share your love with us.
thanks DEAR
Hey I forgot I don’t know you have read the miserables book or not but you can save a human soul even with a piece of bread or with your friendship.