Hello
I met someone few months ago and she was a perfect woman then I found that I love her and I knew that she likes me alittle so I want to tell her something about myself and my life and my problems but I’m afraid of her respond and…
one time many years ago I trusted someone and she wasn’t so… Do you know after that I cannot trust anyone but I need to talk with someone
can you write something?a suggestion and a comment it’s not important what.
please help me.I should tell her?
2 comments
What is worse, saying something you regret or regret saying nothing? Both are horrible feelings, but one is ephemeral (usually) and the other can last a lifetime. What’s the worst she could say? No? Then you’re back at square one, nothing lost. Even if she says no there may still be an opportunity to build a friendship with her which can be just as good in my opinion. I say go for it! If you don’t ask the answer is always no, go out on a limb, take some risks! Living means taking risks, if you play it safe all the time you lose anyways. You should take this opportunity as a challenge, do your best, be genuine, be honest and if she doesn’t reciprocate don’t take it personally at all, it isn’t your fault if she isn’t interested, her taste may just be different but that doesn’t mean you “taste bad” at all, I assure you. Besides, there are so many other people in the world, i don’t mean to minimize her significance as I know she is completely unique as is everyone, but that doesn’t mean you can’t find someone just as good. You can’t lose in this situation, either you stay in the position you are or you make progress, if in fact she rejects you she may eventually warm up to you if you create a connection and then elaborate it with time and effort. Don’t put pressure on her though, take your time, stay enthusiastic. Take a risk, mahn 🙂
Hello thanks alot and… I think you are right but it’s so hard to tell her when I see her I …that not fear it’s phobia ….errr so silly I am but I can’t change it.