So I don’t know what to say. But I’ll start here I have a boyfriend. We have been together for awhile. But he can me like shit allot. Well I’m pregnant with his baby. He doesn’t want it neither does his dad. So they want abortion. I’m not sure. I want it but he doesn’t care. He bugs me about it al the time. I feel like all he wants is for me just to kill myself cause that’s what he wants I know so he can just be done with me. Know one understands how I feel and won’t. He also is always looking at other girls on line. And hiding it from me. I hate it.
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Abortion is a touchy subject and I don’t want to get into the politics of it, but the way I see it is this: it’s a choice between two people and ideally people would agree but if it is tied at 1 for, 1 against, then go with life.
Don’t let him force you into doing it if you don’t want to. It sounds like you’ve let him force you around a lot already.
Take a stand and be your own person. From the sound of it, that starts with getting out of that relationship.
I hope the best for you.
If you want to keep it then I think you should, you have the right. If your boyfriend doesn’t want to support you then I think it’s worth questioning whether you should stay with him.
In your position you deserve all the support you can get; don’t doubt yourself when you’re worth so much.
dump the boyfriend, keep the child.
Don’t abort a child cuz a guy tells you too. Who the flip is he to tell you what to do? An arrogant ass. If doesn’t seem like you’re healthy enough right now to care for a child so maybe some counseling cuz I’m a single mom and no family. it’s worth it and super hard. You need to get away from the bf and his dad. Very negative for you. You don’t end your life over another person either. Gives them too much power and satisfaction. Take your baby and run. Besides you can always find another guy. Or put your child up for adoption. they pay all expenses while you’re pregnant and pay you like $25g for the child if that’s what you choose.