I cant seem to find words for him…i cant bring my self to ask for anything i want or need..because i have been turned down and hurt so many times before by so many others my mind will not accept that he wont..
when i ask him a question..a serious question that is bothering me.. i know the answer i get is the truth…but i cant bring my mind to trust him.. what will i do if i can never trust him .. how do i get past all this.. i dont want to be alone… i KNOW he will leave me because of my mood swings after long enough.. everyone has..
what do i do..i cant speak..i just get soo angry at myself and he thinks its his fault…its not.. its me.. what do i do..
i dont want to lose him..
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if you want someone to understand something you think they don’t, you have to take upon yourself, the responsibility to articulate it as best you can.
If someone abandons you for struggling to articulate exactly what you mean… they’re not worth the effort of expression in the first place.
Nicely put.
I’d also add that she might want to voice some of her wants/needs a little so that he knows what it is she wants.
I suspect that he wants to help but just doesn’t know how. If he knew, perhaps it would help ease her problems with distrust, insecurity, and low self esteem in time as he can show her the things she doesn’t’t seem to want to believe.
Would it help to write it down? Are you artistic, can you (pardon the pun) draw him a picture? That might help him understand. Many people have problems putting their thoughts into words, and I know it can be equally hard and frustrating for both people but if you both care enough, and love each other there should be no problem to collaborate together to talk about any issues.