I can’t do this.. Whenever i find reason to be a little bit happy, someone destroy it.. They say something or do something that makes me feel not good enough.. I am not super model and i have normal body but my mother always tells me that I am fat and that i need to think what I eat.. But she is the one who buys me sweets and bad food but when i say that to her she just ignore me..Some guy at school tell me I am fat every day but i think I can ignore him because I don’t like him..And then when something is wrong It’s always my fault..Just so so so tired of that shit called life and society…
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I have no experience in being called fat (Since I’m a boy).
But I do have experience in these kinda situations (Sadly enough).
You just have to ignore them (Or atleast try).
School is a cruel place that is just a reflection of our society (It’s shit basically).
I don’t know you, but I’m sure you aren’t fat, or anything close to that.
It’s easier said then done though, but try.
I will try to ignore them, thank you so much.
You are the way Nature (or God?) intended you to be, and that is how you are supposed to be. Look your mother in the eye and tell her this.
So you are not a super model, who cares? You are beautiful!
So a random guy tells you that you are fat, don`t care! You are beautiful!
Is it your fault when something is wrong? No it`s not!
If you are tired of the society, fuck it! Be who you are! Do not make excuses for being you!
You are beautiful!
Anyone who calls you fat is shallow
Anyone who calls you fat is… An idiot. (I was going to say something amazingly clever and inspiring. But this is the honest truth). But I agree with Solivagus and HJ.
Thank you all guys, i just lost my confidence because of all that shit..
Just hold out until you graduate and can move out. Trust me, life gets amazingly better once you’re out of High School and out of your parents house. There is sooo much less bullshyst out there, in the real world. School is like a breeding ground for idiocy and misdirected anger. It’ll get better. In the meantime, ignore them. And if YOU feel like you need to lose weight, talk to your school nurse, they’ll be able to give you a realistic goal weight, and give you tips to achieve it.
Definitely talk to the nurse though, because you don’t want to push yourself into anorexia. You could be at a healthy weight right now. Nobody is super model skinny, not even the models anymore. Photoshop makes em that twiggy.
Also, if your self esteem is really low, you may tend to wear unflattering clothes. I used to wear baggy pants and huge tshirts because I was (am) overweight and I hated the way I looked in high school. I weigh more now than I did then, but I have more confidence, and so I wear things that flatter my curvyness, instead of trying to hide it. And I get lots of admiring looks, so don’t think you have to be skinny to be thought of as beautiful.
Keep your chin up, sweetie. We’re here for you.