I didn’t do it, I never will hopefully.
While I do think that suicide should be a human right, I can safely say that unless I was unfortunate enough to be diagnosed with some
sort of horrible disease I don’t think I will ever kill myself.
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Sorry for wasting the time of anyone who read the original post.
Peace and Love to you all.
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Well, we can’t stop you… but trust me when I say that I know exactly how it feels…
To loose someone that you gave your heart to, only to have it destroyed.
Your daughter will grow up and survive and understand that you didn’t do this because you don’t love her: it’s because you do.
I wish you safe and painless passage unknown friend…
This annoys me so much. What drives people with children to act so selfishly? You can’t die now, because if you do, your daughter will never understand why you’ve killed yourself. People will tell her all sorts of reasons why you did it, and you aren’t going to be there to defend yourself in the slightest!
Live for your daughter, not for yourself. If you love her, then stay here to take care of her.
I don’t pretend to know how he feels, but let me give you one possible answer as to why somebody with a child would commit suicide. A parent suffers from depression and other disorders that make them miserable nearly every day of their life. The only reason they didn’t end it years ago was because of their child. They hate themselves for it, but they can’t help but resent having to put up with the pain for the child. The child grows up seeing the pain their parent is in every day and becomes depressed as well. In a moment of brutal honesty they child asks why the parent didn’t end it before, and the parent tell them. Would you want to live knowing that you did that to somebody you loved? Suicide hurts the ones we love. They tell themselves lies to help them deal with the loss. That’s so much better than them knowing the truth as to why somebody would take their own life.
Wanting to die and having a child or children is not selfish at all!!! You can not understand unless you are that person. I love my child to the moon and back . They are the reason why. Each day I fight this feeling of depression. But sometimes it’s so overwhelming….. Depression, the feeling of lost hope and sadness is a feeling only the person feeling can describe…. Please don’t judge anyone for feeling the way they do with or without kids. Being parents- we are only human
I’ve been torn in this as there’s been a few posts on here recently and I’ve always thought of the child and the effects suicide would have on them, seeing sites for the bereaved of suicide and reading stories show how they can blame themselves in later life. Then you are right, depression affects us all, whether we are parents or not and because I’ve never had a child means I can’t put myself in that position like you can, I just hope, like you, they’ll go that extra mile to fight to remain for the child.
On this matter… I never telling the plp here I had a child- but I do. I don’t want to be judged . I don’t wont t be looked down upon as a horrible mother because I often get depressed but like i said before it is because of my child I continue to press on…. I love waking up to a smiling face. I don’t wont to leave my child in the world alone, without me. So i continue to press on and to see another day…. Talking about my experience on here actually helps, it is nice having an outlet. I am human….. I am not saying someone has judge me,but I am asking for understanding because for i became a mother I was just me….